Carol Wilson Update

Thankful

2012-02-02T16:16:00.001-05:00

After finishing the book of Exodus and moving into the book of Leviticus I am certainly glad to be living at this time in history. What an assortment of requirements from God! The Israelites were certainly far from perfect, but I am not sure that they were all that much different than we in the 21st century. They were quick to forget about God’s guidance, protection and blessing, finding it easy to complain and sin in a multitude of ways. After God gave the Ten Commandments followed by thunder, lightening and smoke billowing from the mountain, Moses assured them; “Don’t be afraid, for God has come in this way to test you, and so that your fear of him will keep you from sinning.” (Exodus 20:20)

It is great not to be living under the many laws of Exodus and Leviticus, knowing the grace of God, but I fear that it has become far too easy for us to be involved in sin because of our “familiarity” with God while lacking a full understanding of his holiness. For me, I feel that can stem from a lack of study/understanding of the Bible and a personal pride/selfishness that the Holy Spirit is not allowed to penetrate. I have appreciated the teaching of our pastor in the Gospels, and our Learning Group studies about the facets salvation. I find the two approaches making me far more sensitive to my own responses to situations and people around me, along with a greater sensitivity to the areas in my life that are not pleasing/glorifying the Lord. In short sin! Maybe is okay to have a healthy fear of God?

After three days short of a month, the repair of my car is complete. It is hard for me to imagine that the antlers of a large buck deer can lay up a vehicle for that long and cost over $6,000. I believe that we both got a headache from that encounter. That is the time when you really appreciate having insurance!

As we wrap up the week, I trust that you have been enjoying the many blessings of God and appreciating the finished work of Jesus on the cross, on our behalf.

Love to all,

Chuck

Trusting God

2012-01-24T16:23:00.000-05:00

I enjoyed a delightful weekend with friend Keith in Raleigh/Durham. He had been looking at an aquarium for tropical fish so we checked them out at the store, selecting one, setting it up, adjusting the water chemicals according to instructions and finally adding a few fish to “test it out”. Knowing that we were rushing the process, we selected some inexpensive fish, but so far they have adapted and seem content in their new surroundings. It was most helpful that Keith is well versed in water quality and knew exactly what chemicals were needed to make the water safe for the fish. It will be fun to watch the project develop over time.

Having finished reading the book of Genesis a few days ago, I have been thinking about the patriarchs listed there. I always enjoy reading about Abraham, Isaac and Jacob but for some reason this time I seem to focus more on Joseph. What an amazing life of faith in God! After being sold into Egyptian slavery by his brothers at the age of 17, I love the statement he makes to them many years later when they are on the verge of starving; “God has sent me ahead of you to keep you and your families alive and to preserve many survivors. So it was God who sent me here, not you!” (45:7-8a) As Joseph looks back over the years, he can see God’s providence at work, both human and divine. Being human, I am sure that he must have wanted to ask “why” many times, but at the same time his faith never seemed to waiver in his God in spite of the ups and downs of his life. That is a good reminder for me!

This was my early morning at the office to pick up donated bread for our kitchens so I am hoping to get a little extra sleep tonight. I trust that your week is going well. I am always thrilled to hear from you and get caught up with your lives.

Love to all,

Chuck

Caught in the act

2012-01-13T15:21:00.002-05:00

Returning home I found a thief busily doing his best to empty the "squirrel proof" bird feeder of every single sunflower seed. I had been thinking that the birds were eating a lot of those seeds lately. I suspect that if I am unable to discourage him, I may have to relocate him to a distant park.

I have had no problem keeping busy since returning home. I have my car in for repair from the encounter with the deer but was a bit shocked at the over $5,000 bill and two weeks to complete the work. Presently we have 30 potential candidates that are learning about us and we them, to determine if this is a proper fit for their service around the world. It is exciting to see the age span going from fairly recent grads to white-haired couples. It is also interesting to see the percentage of medical/doctors in this group. The group will be heading for their respective homes on Sunday.

I am feeling dramatically better after the chest congestion but recognizing that I am far more tired yet. I am sure that too shall pass, but it reminds me that I am not getting any younger. As I recognize that, I am encouraged by 2 Corinthians 4:16-18:

"...we never give up. Though our bodies are dying, our spirits are being renewed every day. For our present troubles are quite small and won't last very long. Yet they produce for us an immeasurably great glory that will last forever! So we don't look at the troubles we can see right now; rather, we look forward to what we have not yet seen. For the troubles we see will soon be over, but the joys to come will last forever." That is a reminder that I need to focus upon every day!

I trust that you have had a blessed week and look forward to a restful weekend.

Love,

Chuck

Special family times

2012-01-05T16:46:00.001-05:00

Thanks to all of you for checking on me. Yes, I did make it back home without any other problems other that a bit of slow-going in Ohio with ice and snow. After seeing several vehicles overturned and others far from the roadway, I was thankful to pass through the area without incident. Parts to repair the deer damage to my car from the out-bound trip are on order and repairs should be underway on Monday.

Some of the cold front pushed into Charlotte this week so we had a couple of cold days but today it is a sunny 60 and is projected to be around 66 tomorrow. Hopefully that will help eliminate the last of the chest congestion that I have been trying to shake. For some reason I tend to get congested when the temperatures get cold.

It is always special to get together with the family. I was thrilled that everyone but Julianna was able to make the trip. Hopefully next time she will not miss the fun due to work responsibilities. It made for an active household with up to 17 of us at the house but it builds special memories as we chat, play games and laugh together. On New Years Eve Gavin and Calli had some friends join us to welcome the arrival of 2012 but with my congestion I decided that sleep was more important than watching the ball drop.

As we move into the new year my prayer for you from the pen of the Apostle Paul is; “I pray that God, who gives you hope, will keep you happy and full of peace as you believe in him. May you over flow with hope through the power of the Holy Spirit.” (Romans 15:13)

Love to you all,

Chuck

Happy New Year!

2011-12-29T10:30:00.003-05:00

As I pulled into the garage at the lake house I noticed lovely Christmas wreathes around the coach lights, then what a surprise to walk into the house and find it all decorated for Christmas! Not having spent much time decorating at home, I was thrilled to be surrounded by decorations all around and even up the winding staircase. It will certainly add to the festivities when the family starts rolling in later today.

My trip went well with one fairly minor mishap, which could have been much worse! At about 6:30 AM as I crossed the NC/VA border, I caught a glimpse of a beautiful rack and nose of what must have been a large buck, running toward me from out of the darkness. I made a quick swerve to avoid hitting him but he was too fast for me and slammed into the side of my car, poking an antler through the back side of my wrap-around headlight, creasing the top of my fender and hood with his antlers, wiping out the side mirror and denting the rear fender. It was quite an impact, but I was thankful to have been able to keep the vehicle on the road without a major mishap. Hitting an animal that large head on could be a disaster! I'm not sure how large he actually was, but at least an eight point buck. I was thankful that it did not effect the handling of the vehicle, just a bit inconvenient with one headlight re-aimed down at the road and no mirror on the side. Fortunately I can get back to Charlotte to have the repairs done.

As I continue reading through Revelation, I am amazed at how stubborn me humans can be even when given life-saving opportunities from our most gracious God. Revelation 9:20 says; "But the people who did not die in these plagues still refused to repent of their evil deeds and turn to God." And that was after experiencing the many plagues as multitudes died before their very eyes! How thankful I am for Jesus miraculous birth into this world to provide love, joy, peace and everlasting life to all who believe upon Him. (John 3:16)

May you and yours enjoy a Blessed New Year!

Love to all,

Chuck

Don't be complacent

2011-12-26T16:52:00.004-05:00

I trust that you all had a wonderful Christmas with family and friends. I was able to enjoy several Christmas programs and a lovely dinner with a couple and their family Christmas evening. Today friend Keith arrived with one of his co-workers and we completed removing track for the model railroad that he had built at his father's home by me. It is always sad to see old friends pulling up stakes (his father is the one who passed on last October) but it is exciting to see whom the Lord will put in his place.

As we wrap up the old year, I am also wrapping up reading through the Bible and have been thinking about the seven churches in Revelation 1-3. As I thought about the positive and negative aspects of each church, I tried to equate my life with each and found that there are times when I could fit into several of those negative slots...especially on certain days. I recognized how easy it is to fall into the position of the church at Ephesus as I read the complaint from the Lord: "You don't love me and each other as you did at first." I also found the words to the church at Laodicea to be a challenge to me: "You are neither hot nor cold." I know that there are days, maybe more than I realize, when I fall into the same categories. OUCH! I believe those are a couple of good areas for me to be working on in the new year...not allowing myself to become complacent!

I plan to leave for Indiana on Wednesday to spend the long New Years weekend with any family members that can make it. At last report I am anticipating that around 10 of us will be there. It does get more difficult as family members relocate at further distances. Pray for safe travels and blessed time as we catch up with each others lives.

A blessed New Year to each of you!

Love, Chuck

The Joy of Christmas

2011-12-18T17:23:00.002-05:00

I have been blessed by numerous Christmas programs this year that I am certain spoke to many hearts as they have mine. Today we focused on Jesus birth in both my class and the church service. We were reminded that Jesus was born in the place of God’s choice and the time of God’s choice but that the manger leads to the cross. Jesus said; “And I, the Son of Man, have come to seek and save those like him (Zacchaeus) who are lost.” (Luke 19:10) As I think about that as His primary purpose for coming, I am humbled at how easy it is to be out of step with His purpose and let such things as health, happiness, relationships, work and all sorts of issues come before the lost as I go through my day of activities. Not that those are wrong in themselves, but I find that it is far too easy to neglect making the main thing, the main thing in my daily routine. That is a good challenge for me to focus upon.

I will be here for Christmas but plan to head for the lake house in Indiana for New Years with other members of the family that can make it. As the family gets larger, it is more difficult for everyone to get free, but we have done quite a good job of getting together this year at various locations.

Hebrews 11 speaks about several men and women of great faith in the Scriptures introducing each one with “by faith.” After reading those accounts it naturally follows; “Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a huge crown of witnesses to the life of faith, let us strip off every weight that slows us down, especially the sin that so easily trips up. And let us run with endurance the race God has set before us. We do this by keeping our eyes on Jesus, the champion who initiates and perfects our faith.” (Hebrews 12:1-2a) What a joy to be celebrating the birth of that Jesus!

Have a blessed Christmas!

Love to you all,

Chuck

Reflecting

2011-12-05T16:38:00.001-05:00

Reflecting on the past week and thinking about each of you that so faithfully keep in touch with me, I am reminded of the Apostle Paul’s words in Philippians 1:3; “Every time I think of you, I give thanks to my God. Whenever I pray, I make my requests for all of you with joy…”

I trust that each of you had a wonderful Thanksgiving holiday. I enjoyed a delightful Thanksgiving dinner with friend Keith’s family in Wake Forest and on Friday Keith and I went to DC to spend the weekend with daughter Lisa. We had a fun time doing some of the tourist things with Lisa and were able to visit the capitol through the new visitor’s center which has been under construction for a long time. The Washington monument is still closed due to the earthquake, so we were unable to take a ride to the top, but were able to visit many of the other monuments in the area. With all of the walking and fresh air, none of us had any problem sleeping at night.

This past week has been a bit of a challenge at the office. We have been having an excessive problem with computer programs and email. We were even without phones for several hours which made the week less productive that planned. Saturday was a beautiful day, so I was able to get things pretty much wrapped up for the winter with the exception of one or two more mowings. As I came around the house from working in the back, I was surprised to find my mailbox decorated with greens and two large red ribbons. My southern daughter Connie came by when I wasn’t looking and was the “Mailbox Elf”.

Yesterday I was invited to join friends to attend an afternoon presentation of The Messiah by the Charlotte Music Club. We thoroughly enjoyed the program and then attended my churches evening program and the tree lighting ceremony. The Christmas season is an exciting time with all of the beautiful music programs and the reminder of the amazing birth of our Lord and Savior some two thousand years ago!

Holidays can be a bit depressing after the loss of a spouse, but I am so thankful for friends and family that continue to pray and encourage me.

Love to you all,

Chuck

Everlasting love

2011-11-23T09:04:00.001-05:00

With Thanksgiving just around the corner, it seems appropriate that I was reading through I Corinthians currently. As I read chapter 13 it was a good reminder of God’s love for each person on this earth and in turn our love for each other and for Him. Verse 13 is thrilling! “Three things last forever—faith, hope, and love---and the greatest of these is love.” As I think of the gifts God has given me, none of them can equal the gift of his love. Isn’t that true between family members and friends too? Now that is something to truly be thankful for!

As I read Chapter 15, I was challenged by the way the Apostle Paul wrapped it up: “But thank God! He gives us victory over sin and death through our Lord Jesus Christ. So my dear brothers and sisters, be strong and immovable. Always work enthusiastically for the Lord, for you know that nothing you do for the Lord is ever useless.” (I Corinthians 15:57-58)

I will be spending Thanksgiving with friend Keith and his family in Wake Forest. Friday I will continue on to Washington DC with Keith to spend the weekend with daughter Lisa. We plan to do some of the tourist things and are hoping that the crowds are not excessive. I am blessed to have such a wonderful family!

Have a blessed Thanksgiving and a fantastic weekend!

Love to you all,

Chuck

Fear and encouragement

2011-11-11T16:58:00.003-05:00

I just completed reading the book of Acts and have been reflecting especially on the Apostle Paul. He certainly had a lot to discourage him along with much encouragement, yet he continued to trust the Lord and boldly move ahead. Often he was surrounded by many sinful influences and corrupting pressures but he was able to move through them without being influenced by them, leaving behind a tremendous impact as lives were transformed. In spite of the "problems" in Corinth and Ephesus many growing churches were established through his efforts. Certainly his resolve coupled with the Holy Spirit accomplished much! It was exciting to see how God used some of the persecution to expand the gospel into Judea and Samaria. Acts 9:31 says; "The church then had peace throughout Judea, Galilee, and Samaria, and it became stronger as the believers lived in the fear of the Lord. And with the encouragement of the Holy Spirit, it grew in numbers." A combination that we usually do not combine in our thinking...fear and encouragement. But what a testimony to the believers obedience and God's faithfulness.

I have been helping friend Keith with his fathers home that had water damage and should have the final work completed when the carpeting and kitchen vinyl are in place next Thursday. Tomorrow (Saturday) the family and some friends will be coming to complete the sorting and emptying of the house, so I am sure we will all be busy. It is always difficult to dismantle the home of a family member when living several hours away.

Thanks so much for your prayers.

Love to you all,

Chuck

Wonderful trip

2011-10-26T16:14:00.006-05:00

We had a delightful time in Chicago with Jeremy and Julianna and the rest of the family. They have a charming apartment and are always fun to be with. Sunday was a special time attending the church service and then having an opportunity to visit Jeremy's class of middle school guys. We were delighted when, at the end of the class, one of the guys reported that he wanted to be baptized and then came by the apartment later with his mother to confirm his desire.

Sunday morning I awoke early and was continuing my reading through the Bible. Included in that days reading was the story about the persistent widow. (Luke 18:1-8) It was amazing how it fit into a situation that I was praying about for a friend who received an unjust decision from a judge and can also fit many other unjust situations that come our way.

"One day Jesus told his disciples a story to illustrate their need for constant prayer and to show them that they must never give up." After telling the story, Jesus says; "Learn a lesson from this evil judge. Even he rendered a just decision in the end, so don't you think God will surely give justice to his chosen people who plead with him day and night?" Then he says; "But when I, the Son of Man return, how many will I find who have faith?"WOW...that should motivate us to greater faith in the Lord and cause us to continue to pray and not give up regardless how bleak things may look!

Thanks for your prayers and love.

Chuck

Help my unbelief

2011-10-18T12:22:00.003-05:00

These have been some rather busy days. Neighbor Phil passed on late last week in Raleigh and the family asked me to spend some time with them. Up until the hour that I left, I had contractors working in his house repairing water damage created from his refrigerator. The kitchen and family room floor coverings still have to be installed, but things are taking shape. I spent Thursday through Sunday with the family and have been catching up here at the office since. Getting things done has been complicated by major computer problems that have persisted at my office for several weeks. We were so thankful for the wonderful staff at Hospice that assisted Phil during his last days on earth. I visited with him a bit after he arrived at the Hospice facility, but by the next day he could not communicate with me. Four days later he passed through the curtain of death. Do continue to pray for the family as they adjust to their loss. There were many answers to prayer during those last weeks...thanks for praying!

While praying for Phil during a time of great pain in his body, one of the family members prayed that "if possible, God would remove the pain." The next morning in my Bible reading I was reading about a father bringing his son to the disciples and then to Jesus for healing. (Mark 9:14-29) The father prayed a similar prayer; "...If you can do anything, take pity on us and help us." "If you can? said Jesus. Everything is possible for him who believes." I like the fathers response to Jesus; "Immediately the boy's father exclaimed, I do believe; help me overcome my unbelief!" It reminded me of my lack of faith so many times as I pray for what seem to be impossible situations, causing me to also pray as the father...help me to overcome my unbelief!

This coming weekend I will be in Chicago joining many members of my family as we spend time with grandson Jeremy and his wife Julianna. We had planned to meet at our lake house but with Jeremy's job as pastor, he was not going to be able to be with us. So we decided to meet together with him in Chicago.

Pray for safety as everyone will be covering many miles on the roads.

Love to you all,

Chuck

Continue Praying

2011-10-05T15:35:00.002-05:00

I appreciate so much your prayers and concern for neighbor Phil. After about 48 hours in the hospital, he became unresponsive and continued in that state for several days. A couple of days ago he rallied but is having a very difficult time. He was able to communicate and take food for a bit but he has many physical problems and unable to eat presently. Continue to pray for him and the family!

Last Friday when the family came to check his house and pick up some of his items, they found the kitchen and family room flooded by the refrigerator. The refrigerator was totally frozen except for the ice maker which continued to send water through the unit and onto the floor. We were all shocked but with the help of a restoration company have dried the place out after removing floor coverings, baseboards and furniture which water had wicked up into and started to create mold. They installed heavy duty blower/heaters drying the place all weekend so now it will be a process of putting everything back together again which will be a challenge with them living three hours away.

The words of the song "May the mind of Christ my Savior" have been my prayer as I have been interacting with the family. Praying that Christ's mind will control all I do and say each day; His word will be filling my heart hour by hour; His peace ruling my life that so that I can be a channel of comfort; His love radiating through my life; His beauty resting upon me that the focus is not on me but only on Christ! That reminds me of the words of John the Baptist; "He must increase and I must decrease." (John 3:30)

I appreciate each of you so very much! Thanks for your love and prayers!

Love, Chuck

Pray for Phil

2011-09-27T16:05:00.004-05:00

Since returning home, I have been quite occupied getting caught up at the house and at the office while trying to be of help to my neighbor Phil who is the father of friend Keith. While I was away, he failed to answer telephone calls from the family that lives about 3-hours away, and after a couple of days they had the police check on him. He was found to be ill and very weak but did not want to go to the doctor or hospital. After I returned, he agreed to let me take him for a check-up on Thursday. We found that his condition was quite serious. The family wanted him close to them so that they could better monitor his condition. So with the doctors’ approval, On Friday I drove him on what turned out to be a 4-hour trip due to heavy traffic, and we admitted him into a well respected hospital located near to the family. His condition continues to be quite uncertain and he is still in the ICU. Pray for wisdom for the medical team, for comfort and peace for Phil, and for the family that have to make many quick decisions that are way out of their comfort area.

This has certainly underscored to me the uncertainty of life at any age. As I have been reading the book of Micah this week a couple of verses stuck to my mind and continue to challenge me: “Oh people, the LORD has told you what is good, and this is what he requires of you: to do what is right, to love mercy, and to walk humbly with your God.” (Micah 6:8) It is a good reminder to me of the greater importance of my reflecting His character day by day over any activity that I may be involved in. As Micah talks about how miserable he feels, I like the confidence he expresses when he says; “As for me, I look to the LORD for help. I wait confidently for God to save me, and my God will certainly hear me.” (Micah 7:7) Hour by hour we confidently wait, trusting God for His peace, guidance and mercy.

Thanks so much for your prayers. Do remember Phil and his family.

Love to you all,

Chuck

Excellent Trip

2011-09-18T16:36:00.006-05:00

Glaciers are always exciting on these trips and Hubbard is outstanding. It stretches for about 76 miles with a 6-mile face that ranges from 300-300 feet in height. There is no way a picture can do justice. Unfortunately Sue did not have much time to watch the glacier calve because of an extremely sick patient. When we got back out into the ocean near a small village, the captain stopped the ship and we sent Sue and the patient on the tender to connect with an ambulance on shore that rushed her to a waiting plane and on to the hospital. I believe that this was the busiest trip that Sue ever had as nurse.

The weather was absolutely fantastic which is amazing, especially at this time of year. We saw numerous whales, several of them bubble feeding which is most interesting. On a side trip I watched a mother bear teaching her two cubs to fish in a small waterfall. She was an expert but they were slow learners. The sea otters are fun to watch and watching the huge Bald Headed Eagles is a real thrill. I was surprised to see the Time Bandit (Deadliest Catch) ship in port and walked out to get a few pictures and a closer look. To my surprise the father of the guys was on board and we had a good chat about the guys and the workings of the ship. During our stop in Victoria BC I visited the Butchart Gardens that are filled with an amazing variety of flowers throughout the huge rolling area. It is a splendid example of what can be done with the remains of a limestone quarry which supplied limestone for Mr. Butchart's portland cement plant many years ago.

We left the ship at Seattle early in the morning and were not scheduled to fly out until late at night, so we rented a car and saw many sights in and around the city starting with the Pike Market and ending at a park overlooking the city. Sue has a friend that now lives in Seattle, so she gave us a good itinerary that included lunch at a charming deli (picture) with all sorts of exotic possibilities.

Thanks for your prayers, emails and phone calls. You are each a blessing!

Love, Chuck

Trip going well

2011-09-10T00:25:00.002-05:00

Our cruise to Alaska is going well but fast. I just realized that we are now about midway through the two-week period with many miles and sights behind us. Today was a full day in Anchorage and tonight we sail on to Homer for tomorrow and then to Kodiak before heading back down the coast. It has been delightful revisiting some of the communities again this year along with adding some new ones. We spent one day at Tracy Arm and I went to shore by tender to visit the little village of Hoonah which is not on the beaten path and very much unspoiled by tourist traffic. As always, the cruise line feeds us far too well, and I have to be extremely careful not to over indulge with all of the wonderful food that they provide. Someone has joked about the possibility of coming on as a passenger and leaving as freight. I am certain that most of us will depart with a few extra pounds. The weather has been extremely nice with temperatures in the low 50's and rain only while we have been sailing which is no problem. That is special for this time of year.

Thanks for your love and prayers!

Chuck

Travel plans

2011-08-29T16:06:00.002-05:00

I have been thrilled with the reports that I have been getting from grandson Gavin who started his college classes last Thursday. He reports that tennis practice is going well and that he is really enjoying his classes. Not that I anticipated otherwise, but it was good to get those confirmations.

Lisa planned to spend this past weekend with me here, but storm Irene caused cancellation of her reservation, so she will schedule a trip later. I had several things planned while she was here, one of which was a trip to the Blue Ridge Mountains to attend a special Mountain Music Program by performers that Carol and I have enjoyed over the years. Lisa wasn’t here to join us but the other friends were still ready to go, so we had a wonderful day in the beautiful Smokey Mountains.

Later this week I fly out to Seattle to join daughter Sue for a cruise to Alaska. We will stop in various ports during eight days of the trip, so we are looking forward to exploring that part of our country this year. I suspect that we will encounter a bit more rain, but being prepared for it should not create any major problem for us. There are quite a few logistics involved getting us together at the proper place and time for boarding, so we will appreciate your prayers for that and for safety and good health during our travels. I’ll try to get some updates out from time to time as I am able to connect with civilization from the ship.

I appreciate each of you and trust that you have having a blessed week.

Love to all,

Chuck

Dare to hope

2011-08-19T15:26:00.003-05:00

It was delightful to spend time with the family in Indiana and get grandson Gavin off to college. Being on the tennis team, he had to move in early and start intensive practice. It was fun to have some time with him and to help in moving him into his dorm room and getting things more or less organized.

I had a little extra time while at the lake to catch up on some of my reading and finished the book of Lamentations as the prophet Jeremiah lamented the destruction of Jerusalem by the Babylonians as prophesied. In chapter 3 he reports; “I am the one who has seen the afflictions that have come from the rod of the LORD’S anger." (vs. 1) He continues; “I will never forget this awful time, as I grieve over my loss. Yet I still dare to hope when I remember this: The faithful love of the LORD never ends. His mercies never cease. Great is his faithfulness; his mercies begin afresh each morning. I say to myself, ‘The LORD is my inheritance; therefore, I will hope in him!’ The LORD is good to those who depend on him. So it is good to wait quietly for salvation from the LORD. And it is good for people to submit at an early age to the yoke of his discipline.” (vs. 20-27)

In spite of what Jeremiah had been through, his faith in his God held strong as he found hope and comfort in Him and His promises. That is a good example to follow as we lament our losses, what ever they may be.

Love to you all,

Chuck

The power of one

2011-08-12T09:56:00.002-05:00

Yesterday I drove to our Indiana lake house to spend a bit of time with our youngest grandson, Gavin, who will be heading off to Bethel College this weekend. It is hard to believe…Time does not stand still. As I tap the computer keys, I am enjoying the lovely cool morning watching our swan family bobbing for their morning breakfast and not a boat in sight on the lake. That will certainly change this weekend when folks have some time to play on the water.

As I was reading the book of Jeremiah this morning, I was reminded of the importance of ONE person that is filled with God’s Spirit. It is so easy to accept the feeling of not believing that one person can accomplish anything, and just hang our heads and complain.

In chapter 26, Jeremiah continues to proclaim God’s warning as he stands in front of the temple warning the residents of certain disaster from the Lord unless they listen and turn from their evil ways. He certainly stood strong and fearless in spite of the strong opposition and even threats upon his life. He and his message were certainly not well received as we read “The priests and prophets presented their accusations to the officials and the people, ‘This man should die!’” (vs. 11) Jeremiah’s response was direct and courageous. He did not beat around the bush. “The LORD gave me every word I have spoken. But if you stop your sinning and begin to obey the LORD your God, he will change his mind about this disaster that he has announced against you. As for me, I am in your hands…” (vs. 12-13) It appears that again ONE man bravely spoke out, saving Jeremiah’s life. “Ahikam son of Shaphan stood up for Jeremiah and persuaded the court not to turn him over to the mob to be killed.” (vs. 24) Again, the power of ONE!

After reading that chapter, I feel quite convicted. It is so much easier to complain and avoid getting involved to prevent being part of the storm, but in so doing, not having the impact that we should have as God-directed believers. History reminds me that sometimes God may not quiet the storm as in Jeremiah’s case, but as we respond according to His will, he will faithfully calm His child with a peace that only He can give and ultimately accomplish His purpose in the situation and in our lives. Thanks Lord, I needed that lesson today!

Have a blessed day!

Chuck

Getting God's Attention

2011-08-05T06:51:00.003-05:00

I have been having some breathing problems recently, but hopefully am on the mend after seeing the doctor and an expensive visit to the pharmacy. Having a bit of trouble sleeping through the night has been an opportunity for me to catch up on my daily reading. I finished the book of Isaiah and as usual was amazed at how many “new” verses were there. It is exciting how different verses seem to jump off the page with each reading…It is a real sense of God speaking directly to me!

Isaiah 57 was something I needed to hear; “The righteous pass away, the godly often die before their time. And no one seems to care or wonder why. No one seems to understand that God is protecting them from the evil to come. For the godly who die will rest in peace.” (vs.1-2 NLB) After a lengthy discussion about idolatrous worship by Isaiah I like Isaiah's conclusion…and challenge; “The high and lofty one who inhabits eternity, the Holy One, says this: I live in that high and holy place with those whose spirits are contrite and humble. I refresh the humble and give new courage to those with repentant hearts…But those who reject me are like the restless sea. It is never still but continually churns up mire and dirt. There is no peace for the wicked, says God.” (vs. 15 & 20-21)

I have been meditating on those verses as I recently passed the anniversary of Carol stepping through that curtain of death and was reminded of a notation that she had made in her Bible; “To get God’s attention” in reference to Isaiah 66;2b; “I the LORD have spoken! I will bless those who have humble and contrite hearts, who tremble at my work.” That sure sounds like a key if we expect to have God respond to our prayers.

Last weekend I enjoyed spending with friend Keith in the Raleigh/Durham area. This weekend I am joining friends in the mountains to do a bit of camping, hiking and attend a special music program. Dear friends are a tremendous blessing!

I trust that you each enjoy a blessed weekend!

Love to all,

Chuck

Keeping in touch

2011-07-21T18:35:00.001-05:00

So far this has been a rather busy week. Many times I have thought that it was time to add a few lines to the blog but then something else moved to the urgent category and I set the blog aside. I appreciate each of you so much that continue to keep in touch and encourage me along the winding bath of life.

My week started off on a high note on Sunday as we heard some fantastic music by The Kings Brass and some challenging but encouraging thoughts from God’s Word. We are currently in the midst of a training session for new candidates at the office, which is always a blessing but at the same time adds some extra responsibilities. With thirty adults and thirty-five children, there is never a dull moment. Each morning as we hear testimonies of God’s work in lives, I am thrilled to have a small part in God’s great enterprise. Thankful for the strength and health that God continues to give me but very much aware that could change at any moment. Thankfully that all is in His hands!

Having just completed reading Proverbs, Ecclesiastes and Song of Songs, I could see a pattern develop as the writer, believed to be King Solomon, shared his thoughts and I suspect portions of his life throughout the three books. It is easy to visualize a young Solomon in Song of Songs wooing a woman and getting married…Sharing some of the joys and heartaches of their love for each other…A picture of Christ’s love for his bride, the church. In the Proverbs he gets practical touching upon many areas of godly counsel. Many times as I awake in the middle of the night and have difficulty going back to sleep I am reminded that with sound judgment and discernment “when you lie down, you will not be afraid; when you lie down, your sleep will be sweet” (Proverbs 3:24) assuring us; “for the LORD will be your confidence and will keep your foot from being snared.” (vs. 26). As I read Ecclesiastes, I could visualize a mature Solomon as he looks back over life and repeatedly says that all the accomplishments of life are futile or meaningless apart from God. He has generated many good reminders and challenges for me since reading the three books.

Now as I am working my way through the book of Isaiah, I see many similarities to today as Isaiah is sent by God to deliver an unpleasant message to the nation of Judah…A nation exhibiting idolatry, hypocrisy, injustice and corruption. Too often it sounds much like what I read in the news today and is a good reminder for us to be praying for our nation along with many others around the world.

I trust that each of you is enjoying the week and avoiding the extreme heat that seems to be covering a good portion of the country. I am certainly thankful for air conditioning!

Love to you all,

Chuck

Three Years

2011-07-12T15:55:00.004-05:00

During these past few days my mind has frequently been drifting back three years ago when we said good by to our dear Carol who valiantly fought cancer for 2 ½ years. Actually it was on this date that we celebrated her life, walking down the aisle behind her casket with I Can Only Imagine playing in the background. Since that time my mind has frequently imagined what joy she is experiencing, ready to greet family members and friends as they also pass through that curtain of death. As she spent those last days on earth, her concern continued to be for her family, friends and the world around her writing: “Thinking back on my life, I am filled with love and gratitude for you. Thank you for allowing me to share in your lives – I have treasured our time together. Cling to Jesus. I’ll see you on the other side of the curtain. I love you, Carol”

This past week I have been reading Ecclesiastes and have appreciated reviewing the many things that Solomon considered futile and unsatisfying (meaningless) in this life without God. He sums up the twelve chapters of meaningless living at the end of chapter 12 when he says “Now all has been heard; here is the conclusion of the matter: Fear God and keep his commandments, for this is the whole duty of man. For God will bring every deed into judgment, including every hidden thing whether it is good or evil.” (vs 13-14)

I have been amazed and thankful for all of the calls, emails and notes of remembrance. I am greatly blessed by you, my fantastic family and friends. My heart felt thanks to each of you!

Love,

Chuck

Fun 4th Holiday

2011-07-07T14:00:00.007-05:00

I arrived safely home with an abundance of fond memories from spending the long 4th of July weekend together with the family at Sault Ste Marie with Sue and Jeff. The weather was outstanding, giving us plenty of opportunity to spend time on the beach and in the water. The water does not get above knee deep for about 300’ before dropping off into the shipping channel which makes for a huge play area. Frisbee was a fun game with a frequent splash when making a catch. The two youngest cousins (Ella & Annika)enjoyed each other and possibly got a bit spoiled with family members competing to hold them. I had the opportunity to meet my new grand “dogger” who recently joined the Jeremy and Julianna household and was a trooper on a family hike between the upper and lower Tahquamenon Falls.

Thanks for your prayers and phone calls. It is always a huge encouragement to know that so many of you are “traveling” with me as I cover many miles alone.

Love to you all,

Chuck

Enjoying the Sault

2011-07-02T07:26:00.005-05:00

After some lengthy travel, the whole family arrived at the Sault late last evening. After a late night around a campfire on the beach, most are sleeping in this morning. It is a delightful setting here looking over the water watching the ships heading through the Sault Locks.

Three of the early risers (Sue, Lisa & Keith) are out on the water checking out the ships as they pass by. There is a bit of haze in the air but the weather is delightful and it is great to be with all of the family again. I am staying at the house being in charge of the breakfast this morning when everyone gets up. We are taking turns preparing meals to help Sue a bit. This is a pretty good sized group to be hosting.

I trust that each of you is enjoying a special weekend with family and friends as we celebrate the 4th.

Love to you all,

Chuck

Soon on the road again

2011-06-26T18:25:00.006-05:00

I just completed reading Psalm 119, observing how the Psalmist continually referred to the instruction and benefits of God’s Word in nearly every verse. He certainly packed a lot in those verses and recognized the importance of tucking them into his mind and heart:

“Oh, How I love your instructions!
I think about them all day long.
Your commands make me wiser than
my enemies
for they are my constant guide.
Yes, I have more insight than my
teachers,
for I am always thinking of your laws.
I am even wiser than my elders,
for I have kept your
commandments” (Psalm 119:97-100)

It is a good reminder for me to do my best to commit His Word to memory and to meditate upon what I read each day.

Later in the week I will be heading up to the lake house for a brief stop prior to heading on to Sault Ste Marie as the family will all be gathering at Sue and Jeff’s home for the weekend of the 4th. It is always a great blessing to be together as a family! Pray for safe travels for all of us that will be on the road and in the air. It is a good time to be together as we remember those tender days three years ago when Carol said her final goodbyes prior to arriving on the other side of that curtain of death.

I am thankful for a family and dear friends that encourage and pray for me as I continue to walk this road without Carol. Pray that I will use the time allotted me to glorify our wonderful Lord while being sensitive and available to assist with the needs of those around me.

Love to you all,

Chuck

No more learning

2011-06-17T16:03:00.004-05:00

Ever notice how certain dates and events continue to stay very fresh in your mind, even to the point of your reliving them as that particular time of year rolls around again? That is so true for me. This week my mind continues to swing back to the past and I have reread many of my notes and our blogs.

Three years ago, we were doing everything that we possibly could to package the three bundles that Carol had hoped and prayed for during her last weeks here on earth. Bundle one was to gain enough strength to make a trip to Michigan for the wedding of grandson Justin and Laura. Bundle two was to have the strength to attend their wedding and possibly take part in it, and bundle three was to retain enough strength to return home to Charlotte to await that rapidly approaching hour. After 2½ years of fighting cancer and fifty-one chemo infusions, we knew it would be a challenge.

By God’s grace we were able to accomplish all three desires/bundles and Carol was even able to give a challenge from the latter part of Ephesians 4 for the couple from her seat at the front of the sanctuary:

A few days after returning home, Carol penned some final thoughts that she wanted me to insert into the blog that continue indelibly engraved on my mind and I believe are a challenge for each of us:

“I had a startling revelation a couple of days ago. I’m not going to learn anything more about heaven until I’m experiencing it in person. (Pause! Smile! Think about it!) I’m simply too tired to read any more, or even to hold a book. So the wonderful studying I’ve done over the past years is all I have—until I step through that fragile curtain and open my eyes on reality for the first time.

So I thought I’d like to pass that along. Today while you have some energy and some control over you time, is the opportunity to learn what you need to know for your real future. There’s probably no last-minute cramming.”

As I experience the great loss of her absence, I also am continually reminded of the tremendous blessing of a caring God and loving family and friends as we walked through the shadows with Carol during those final days.

I trust that you all are experiencing His love in your lives!

Chuck

Praise & Thanksgiving

2011-06-07T16:39:00.010-05:00

I have been reading the Psalms during the past couple of weeks and reminded of how they are filled with praise and thanksgiving. I recently read that praise is repeated 175 times and thanks 32 times in the book of Psalms. Certainly we should get a strong message from that repetition.

I spent the weekend at our lake house in Indiana and found myself repeatedly praising and thanking the Lord for our family. They are always a blessing to be with and it is a special blessing to see the grandchildren making the “right” decisions and growing in the Lord. On this trip the family gathered to congratulate grandson Gavin on his graduation from high school. He will be heading to Bethel College in the fall in preparation for medical school. All of the family pitched in preparing an open house for him at the lake. Nearly a hundred friends stopped by to play games, chat and enjoy a huge variety of food items.

Each time I mention the lake, someone asks about our swans. I was thrilled to find that they now have five young ones. Mother and father are proud parents and it was fun to watch them teaching the little ones to reach down deep for morsels of food. Notice how intent the "kids" are watching their mom.

I am thankful for safe travel and for each of you who continue to pray. You are each a tremendous blessing!

Love,

Chuck

Our required "walk"

2011-05-28T16:39:00.003-05:00

This weekend I am staying close to home catching up on both house and yard work. So far I have been able to get the laundry done, trim the majority of the shrubs that were becoming overgrown, weed gardens, mow lawn, clean fountain and take time to swim some laps at the Y before dinner time. I am plenty tired but pleased with the progress. Hopefully I will be able to complete the major items on Monday being that it is a holiday.

I enjoyed the past weekend relaxing and hiking in the mountains with friends from the office. I was amazed how easy it was for me to sleep long hours up there. That mountain air is certainly therapeutic and I was also far enough away that I wasn’t tempted to attack another project or two at home. Next weekend I will be heading back to Indiana to participate in a graduation party for grandson Gavin. I sure don’t know where the years have gone, but it is a tremendous blessing to see the grandchildren finishing the next phase of life so well. Much credit goes to their loving, caring, and praying grandmother. We all miss her very much!

This week Indeed focused on the 6th chapter of Micah. As I was reading today, I thought that Micah 6:8 does a good job of summing up the weeks study. “What does the LORD require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.” Just--merciful--humble…now that doesn’t sound all that difficult, but as I thought about it, I can recall numerous times when I didn’t handle situations in that manner. I appreciated the author’s statement: “The key to life in our world isn’t simply to follow all of God’s rules. It’s to live by God’s character…His character begins to define our walk—our just, compassionate, humble walk.” Okay Brother Micah, I believe that I’m getting the message!

I trust that you will each have a blessed Memorial Day weekend with family and friends as we reflect upon those who have given their lives for our freedom.

Love to you all,

Chuck

For Such a Time as This

2011-05-18T17:04:00.004-05:00

What a delightful weekend spent with the family in Chicago attending Jeremy’s graduation from Moody, Julianna’s fantastic program, and then participating in the Sunday service at the church on the South side of town where Jeremy will be serving as Pastor of Student Ministries. I was thrilled that both of my newest great grand daughters were able to bring their parents and siblings for the weekend. My family truly is a blessing!

The Commencement at Moody brought back many fond memories of visits to both the church and the Institute. I have to admit that my eyes filled with tears on several occasions recalling many visits and wishing that Carol was there to join us for the festivities. In the evening we attended a ballet written and choreographed by Julianna; “For Such a Time as This” based on the story of Ruth from the Book of Esther. Writing about the ballet in the program, Juilianna said in part; “As each of us walk through our lives, there are moments when we are asked to act in faith and not by sight. Just as Esther and Mordecai trusted the Lord in good times and in their darkest hour, so we are called to trust Him every moment.” At the conclusion of the ballet, Jeremy came out on stage to follow up with a brief Spiritual message and a challenge to all of those in the packed auditorium.

By coincidence I was reading the book of Esther last week, so the scenes were fresh in my mind. Mordecai’s challenge to Esther about approaching the king was the basis for the title of the ballet; “And who knows but that you have come to royal position for such a time as this?” I like Esther’s resolve when she makes her decision and says; “…I will go to the king, even though it is against the law. And if I perish, I perish.” That is the kind of resolve that I need on important matters!

I am so thankful for your prayers, for a wonderful weekend and safe travel back home.

Love to you all,

Chuck

Jeremy Graduating

2011-05-13T15:45:00.002-05:00

This is a BIG weekend when grandson Jeremy graduates from Moody. Much of the family will be assembling for this exciting event here in Chicago. Graduation will be Saturday morning and in the evening we will be attending Julianna's recital for her students. Sunday morning we plan on attending services at the church where Jeremy will be serving as youth minister and after we finish lunch I head back to our lake house in Indiana for a quick night of rest before heading back to Charlotte. It is a fairly quick trip but a delight to be able to be with the family.

I drove up to the lake house on Thursday and enjoyed my few hours there. Mother swan is still sitting on her nest while dad swan keeps the geese and other critters away from her. A mother duck stopped by to show off her five little ones that are still in the "fuzz ball" stage. Last year some animal damaged the eggs so I was pleased to see the little ones this year.

Have a wonderful weekend.

Love, Chuck

Blessings

2011-05-06T15:29:00.001-05:00

Spring is certainly here. I have a baby robin that likes to follow me around thinking I will kick up a bug for him. A cardinal just learning to fly keeps wanting to go into my garage while both his parents and I continue to discourage him. The wrens and bluebirds are in the process of building and my pomegranate is loaded with blooms as you can see.

It has been a full but enjoyable week. I was in the Raleigh/Durham area last weekend with friend Keith. It was good to spend a bit of time with him and enjoy his great cooking. It is always a danger of adding a few pounds when we get together. This has been a busy week at the office but always a blessing to be involved with what the Lord is doing around the world.

Yesterday I enjoyed an early morning breakfast at the NASCAR Hall of Fame to attend the National Day of Prayer. It was a double blessing to see the new facility and join with over 2,200 attendees at the program. Two of us from the office traveled uptown on the light rail train which eliminates the challenge of parking and is a pleasant ride. We were challenged to a more intentional prayer life by Jim Morgan who is the CEO for Crispy Creame. He shared with us the 8-year struggle in prayer that he and his wife had for their son Jamie and the tremendous transformation in his life about three years ago. It was great to have Jamie there also sharing some insights along with music which he had written.

This past week I have been blessed and challenged in reading the book of Ezra. As Ezra prepared to pass through unfriendly territory he paused at the Ahave Canal and “…proclaimed a fast, so that we might humble ourselves before God and ask him for a safe journey…” (Ezra 8:21) In verse 22 he continues; “I was ashamed to ask the king for soldiers and horsemen to protect us from enemies on the road, because we had told the king, ‘The gracious hand of our God is on everyone who looks to him…’ The end result recorded in verse 23 was; “So we fasted and petitioned or God about this, and he answered our prayer.” I sure find it easy to seek all sorts of help in a situation before pausing to lay it before the Lord. Hopefully I am learning!

Thanks so much for your faithful prayers.

Love, Chuck

Easter Blessings

2011-04-27T19:18:00.001-05:00

I am thankful for safe travel and a wonderful time with the family at the lake house in Indiana over the Easter weekend. Thirteen of us were able to gather there and we were blessed with great conversation, active children, and delicious food. I was especially thrilled to have my four great grandchildren with us…Annika, Lydia, Joshua and Ella, our newest, shown here with their Boppi. With the wet weather, the older kids spent quite a bit of time playing various video games. You will note that dog Halley got a little bored with it all.

It was three years ago that Carol and I spent our last time there with the whole family, chatting, taking pictures and realizing that Carol’s life was rapidly coming to an end as cancer took its toll. As I look back I am amazed at the way the Lord was leading and even orchestrating the events to give Carol an amazing quality of life and experiences to bless her and prepare the family for the difficult days that were ahead of us. Those memories are rich and I often fall back on them when I feel a bit “down”.

I have been reading Kings and Chronicles these past few days and continually am reminded of those that spent many amazing years faithfully walking with the Lord, only to make a major slip-up near the end. As I read about Uzziah today who reigned for fifty-two years. 2 Chronicles 26:5b reports; “As long as he sought the LORD, God gave him success.” Unfortunately in the later years of his reign he intruded into functions intended for priests, not him, and was stricken with leprosy. It is shocking to see similar stories of many kings and leaders of that day. I have found it an interesting study to attempt to analyze what it was that caused them to go astray. It seems that in most every case their humbleness turns to pride and the desire for more power and influence. What a blessing it is to have trusted friends along with the Holy Spirit that are quick to point out any of those tendencies in our lives that we will finish well.

I trust that each of you enjoyed a special Easter reflecting on Jesus, his life, his death on our behalf, and his resurrection from the grave as our Lord and Savior. What an unspeakable blessing!

Love to you all,

Chuck

Prayers

2011-04-18T18:07:00.002-05:00

I just finished reading 1 & 2 Kings observing how many of the kings that followed Solomon became corrupted during their reign. Actually, Solomon didn’t finish all that well either. Some started out well but along the way it seems that power went to their heads and they certainly did not end well, even causing the nation of Israel to split apart. I was especially interested in a couple of amazing prayers during that time that God answered.

Elijah prayed that it would not rain during the period to prove God’s power, and it didn’t! That certainly was a prayer of sacrifice as he was fully aware that he would also suffer along with others as everything dried up, while putting his very life in jeopardy. I especially liked Hezekiah’s prayer indicating his total dependence on the God who had the power to deliver his people. He did not look to any of his or the countries resources but to his great God. In both cases, these men displayed a great measure of humility that seemed to please God. They both were a good example of Peters words in 1 Peter 5:5 “…God opposes the proud, but gives grace to the humble.” I found these chapters a good reminder to me of the importance of total obedience to God in spite of any potential risk or inconvenience on my part and the importance of striving to finish well. I trust that will be indelibly etched into my brain!

With all of the activities at the office coupled with additional spring yard-work necessary at home, I became so busy that I did not realize how soon Easter was coming. When I woke up to the fact that it is just around the corner, I quickly made plans to drive to our lake house on Thursday to spend time with family members that can join me. I am thrilled that Justin and Laura are planning to bring Ella so that she can get acquainted with her “Boppi”. It will be a long day of travel being that I need to be on the way to the warehouse to pick up donated bread for the mission by 4:00 AM, hitting the road after that for a nearly 12-hour drive to Indiana. Do pray that I will stay alert for the trip and arrive safely.

Thanks for your continued encouragement and prayers,

Love,

Chuck

Always challenged!

2011-04-08T09:25:00.002-05:00

WOW…This week sure has gone fast! It has been a delight for me to have son-in-law Keith and granddaughter Calli visiting. Daughter Karin was not able to make the trip as planned due to a combination of a flare-up with Crones, a strep infection for grandson Gavin, helping him get ready to leave on a ministry ski trip to Colorado, and recording a video that he had to send off to a college before leaving. On Tuesday, Keith and I took Calli to Charleston to spend the balance of the week with friends who were vacationing there. Some of our best laid plans do not work out exactly as planned. Thankfully schedules adjusted and we will all soon be back to “normal.” Keith drove through last night to be home to take care of the dog being that Karin has to leave for Chicago to attend a continuing education seminar. When I last talked to him around 9 PM his GPS indicated arrival time to be around 1 AM today. (I hope that he is still sleeping) Karin called to let me know she was feeling a bit better and Calli is traveling back home with friends from Charleston today. Gavin will be driving back home from Colorado tomorrow with the group. Much to be praying about!

While praying for the family this morning I was reminded of a recent reading in Indeed titled “Live the Message” based on Jeremiah 1:17 “Get yourself ready! Stand up and say to them whatever I command you.” I am thankful for family members that do their best in discerning the Lord’s message for their lives and desiring to not only live the message but to also pass it on. Much credit for that comes from their mom and grandmother, Carol. I find that rarely a day goes by when we are together, that we do not talk about some special influence that she had in our lives and those around us.

In the reading I was challenged by the reminder that we all have a message that we are constantly delivering. It can be one of redemption or guilt, confidence or insecurity, faith or doubt…what ever we believe to be true. Those thoughts have caused me to think more often before making a quick response while at the same time attempting to be more discerning about the messages coming my way. I liked the way the writer summed it up; “God wants us to live the message He gives, not the ones we hear from ourselves or others. He wants us to be incarnations of truth.” Hopefully my response to that challenge will glorify Him!

I trust that you are each enjoying His rich blessings.

Love to you all,

Chuck

New Arrival!

2011-03-31T15:06:00.006-05:00

It is a great joy to announce the birth of Ella Grace on 3/30/11 weighing in at 6 lbs 7 oz and 19.5". Proud parents Justin and Laura are doing well as is Ella. Grandmother Sue hurriedly drove the 4+ hours from her home to be there for the birth...and just barely made it. She looks mighty happy about it doesn't she? Thanks for all of you that have been praying over these months.

We were having a Community Life Conference at the office this week when I received calls yesterday from both Justin and Sue that Laura's labor had started. It was a bit difficult to keep my mind on the meetings as I kept in touch with Sue on the road and Justin in the hospital. I was thrilled to get the "arrival" calls from the two of them around 5:00 PM.

This morning as I was reading Isaiah I was reminded again of the goodness of God in spite of our rebellion. As the Lord spoke to Isaiah about rebellious Judah, we are reminded that in spite of their (and our) rebellion; "...the LORD still waits for you to come to him so that he can show you his love and compassion. For the LORD is a faithful God. Blessed are those who wait for him to help them." (Isaiah 30:18) As we go through the ups and downs of life I am always encouraged by his words in verses 19-20; "He will be gracious if you ask for help. He will respond instantly to the sound of your cries. Though the Lord gave you adversity for food and affliction for drink, he will still be with you and teach you." That was a good reminder for me today!

Tomorrow Karin, Keith and Calli will be coming to visit me. Gavin will be heading to Colorado for a final trip with a ministry group. This is his last year in High School so he does not expect to be able to join the group next year. I am sure that this will be a busy week of activities and just catching up on each others lives as we spend the time together.

Thanks for all of your encouragement and prayers.

Love,

Chuck

Spring Challenges

2011-03-25T13:24:00.005-05:00

With the beauties of spring come the many outside tasks which have been using much of my spare time lately. At the moment it seems like an impossible task to keep up on all of the "inside" chores, spend week days at the office and still have time to spend time with friends. You can guess where I will be spending my day Saturday. For sure, I don't have time to be bored!

As I see clips of the tsunamis tragedy flash on the computer screen and across the pages of the papers, I continue to be reminded of the message by Dr. Monro last Sunday. Mid-week he changed his message plans to be in step with the topic he felt the Spirit wanted him to address, which was "Earthquakes, tsunamis and God." I have reflected upon his four major points all week:

We were reminded that these tragedies are all (1) part of life and are indiscriminate. They don't always happen to "them" but can effect any of us at any time. As such, they may be (2) a wake-up call to all of us from our selfish, self-absorbed selves. The good news is that (3) God is in control! The words from Isaiah 46:8-10 sure do support that: "Remember this, fix it in mind, take it to heart...I am God, and there is no other; I am God, and there is none like me. I make known the end from the beginning, from ancient times, what is still to come. I say: My purpose will stand, and I will do all that I please." When we look at the life of Jesus, we certainly see that (4) God knows about suffering. Jesus certainly did not find his years on earth to be easy or for that matter to end on a "high note." He knew what it was to suffer!

As I was coming in to the office today I was listening to Dr. Lutzer and I found a statement that he made to be both an encouragement and a challenge to me. He said; "For a Christian, this life is the worst that it can ever get, but for a non-Christian this life is the best it will ever be." That is a good one to keep in mind as we struggle with problems and meet with others in great need!

I trust that this has been a good week for you and that you will have a blessed weekend.

Love,

Chuck

Productive Weekend

2011-03-14T16:43:00.002-05:00

I had a productive weekend but somewhat painful physically. I spent a long day Saturday working in the yard. The excessive heat and draught last summer killed some mature plantings that had to be removed and replaced and much weeding and trimming was also necessary along with grass that was demanding attention. Wow...I thought that I was sore when I went to bed but that was nothing compared to the aches and pains Sunday morning. But with the help of a couple Excedrin, the discomfort was put behind me and I had a delightful day.

I worked my way through the books of Judges and Ruth during the week. Getting into the book of Ruth was a welcome change after following the lives of the Judges. I found myself reflecting upon the life of Samson. A man "set apart to God from birth" with the opportunity to deliver Israel from the hands of the Philistines, but wasting so much of God's gifts and finally his life coming to a tragic ending. While his life was filled with many excesses, I have been reflecting upon my own life and recognizing how easy it is to "head off in the wrong direction." A good reminder that it is a daily challenge to finish well!

I had the opportunity to visit the contemporary church that grandson Jeremy introduced us to a few years ago. What a joy it is to see how they are impacting the younger adults of the community. Lives that are totally transformed from lifestyles that I had never heard about when I was their age. They are currently in a series on "Self-Sabotage and the Avoidance Thereof." Pastor Scott talked about habits, tendencies and inclinations that resurface even after being dealt with. And the need to focus on facets that can undermine our identity and relationship with God. I especially liked the way he introduced the message by his deep desire to inspire people and then wrapping up the message emphasizing his passion for each one to know Christ. I am always challenged and encouraged when I visit and witness the excitement along with numerical and spiritual growth there.

I trust that you each have a blessed week.

Love to all,

Chuck

Reflections

2011-03-08T14:54:00.002-05:00

I enjoyed a delightful weekend touring Keith’s complex in the Raleigh/Durham area, meeting his co-workers and catching up with each other. I miss his friendship and encouragement as my neighbor, but we still are able to keep in touch by phone and an occasional visit. Keith keeps mighty busy with 350 housing units. Rarely a dull moment with all of the challenges that they generate daily. While there, I awoke a little early one morning and was catching up on my daily reading through the Bible, which brought me to the end of the book of Joshua. As I reviewed some of the high points from the lives of Moses and Joshua, I was reminded and challenged by the following:

Unbelief delayed the Israelites from entering the Promised Land. Regardless, God never withdrew his promises to them. Their history indicated obedience bringing blessings and victory while disobedience continually resulted in defeat and heartache. While there was freedom of choice for the people, responsibility rested upon their own shoulders to make the “right” choice and enjoy the blessings available to them or face the consequences from making wrong choices. A prime example was Moses being able to see the Promised Land but dying before the group moved on in, due to a moment of impatience and anger on his part. WOW…A good reminder to me about making hasty responses and letting my emotions get out of control.

As Joshua took the Israelites into the Promised Land he learned that victory comes through faith in God and obedience to His Word. I always enjoy reading about the Jericho experience, seeing seven days of obedience accomplish the victory that no amount of might or power could have done. Sadly that fantastic victory was tainted by Achan’s disobedience by taking some of the forbidden spoils, reminding me of the importance of one individuals' disobedience which can prevent God’s planned blessing on the whole group.

There were also numerous examples of the making and developing of good leaders. Certainly their maturity, character and reputation caused them to stand out. But also of utmost importance was how they managed their bodies, minds, families, resources, tongues....their very lives, that made the difference. As I thought about my own life, I was reminded of several areas that need “better management.” Always new challenges for me to work on. Thank you Lord!

Thanks for your love and prayers,

Chuck

Update

2011-03-04T11:24:00.002-05:00

Thanks to each of you who have been praying and who have been checking about my Colonoscopy. The initial report immediately after the procedure was favorable indicating only some diverticulitis which we were already aware of. The final report will be coming in a few days but should be similar with a bit more detail. I am thankful for the report.

Later today I am heading over to Raleigh/Durham for the weekend to celebrate the birthday of my former neighbor, Keith. He has moved into a new apartment and we will be having an open house for his friends, family and coworkers on Saturday. I am looking forward to a special time with him and the others this weekend.

As always, your emails, calls and notes are a blessing. Thanks for keeping in touch.

Have a blessed weekend,

Chuck

Returned Home

2011-02-27T12:08:00.004-05:00

What a wonderful time Lisa and I enjoyed in Nassau with Ruth and Paul! As the pictures reveal, we spent plenty of time on the fantastic beaches enjoying the crystal clear water and warm white sand. We even took time out to stop by Ben & Jerry's in the Atlantis village to enjoy a delicious treat as we admired the huge ships filling all available slips at the marina. I am sure that we all did well on vitamin D and exercise and in addition enjoyed wonderful food and fellowship with Paul, Ruth and friends on the island.

Today I am finding myself back to reality and the fact that this is preparation time for a colonoscopy tomorrow. Okay...I don't have to explain, but home right now is a far-cry of the oasis that we enjoyed in the Bahamas. An earlier test that I had prompted this one to find if something may be "going on" that we are not aware of. Do pray for the procedure and wisdom should something show up that needs attention.

I was thrilled with the spring-like weather that I returned to which gives hope that our real spring is not too far off. I was a bit shocked as I returned to see all of the weeds that suddenly appeared in my yard. A reminder that it is time to get busy outside.

As always, I so much appreciate your prayers and the frequent calls and emails.

Love to all,

Chuck

Enjoying Nassau

2011-02-21T10:02:00.004-05:00

I have had a bit of trouble connecting to my interned accounts but seem to be on now. Unfortunately my email accounts are not accessible as yet but I will continue to try. Don't be surprised if you do not hear back from me until I return. My flight went well but Lisa was delayed six hours in Ft. Lauderdale due to equipment trouble, but arrived safely.

We are enjoying a wonderful time with Paul and Ruth keeping busy with hiking, visits to the beach and a delightful time of renewing friendships at church yesterday. Last evening we enjoyed dinner at Atlantis and a tour through the Digs looking at huge schools of fish and most unusual creatures of the sea. That is always an amazing tour. Atlantis is a huge up-scale complex of activities and housing located on Paradise Island.

Thanks for your prayers. Have a blessed day.

Love,

Chuck

2011-02-14T17:56:00.006-05:00

It was a fun weekend spent in the Raleigh area with friend Keith as a group of us transformed the apartment which he will be moving into with new paint. It was a delight to spend time with his family and several friends and we were able to get the entire place painted on Saturday. I enjoyed getting to know some of the men that he works with and seeing the extensive properties that they manage. It gave me a new appreciation of working with tenants.

Next Saturday I will be meeting daughter Lisa in Nassau to enjoy some sun and fellowship with Ruth (Carol's sister) and Paul. It always is a delight to visit them in the place that boasts "It is better in the Bahamas" and after the winter that we have had, that weather sounds wonderful. Actually this week with temperatures around 70 here, I can't complain. But I am sure that winter is not past as yet.

Please join us in praying for safety and that our flights will be reasonably on time so that we connect at the Nassau airport as planned. If all goes as scheduled, we should arrive only a few minutes apart but coming from different parts of the country and on different airlines, anything is possible.

I trust that you have a wonderful week.

Love,

Chuck

Dehydration

2011-02-07T17:16:00.004-05:00

Over the weekend I was reflecting on a reading in Indeed this past week and was reminded of the danger of dehydration, both physical and spiritual. The author said; "When God's people are dehydrated and grumpy about it, God rains grace on them anyway." It reminded me of my tendency to get grumpy and tired when working in the heat without adequate water. Also, I saw it effect Carol as the chemo infusions caused dehydration. I was especially reminded that we can also become dehydrated spiritually when we are not "drinking" from the Word of God. I find that to be true in my life when I get so busy that I don't feel I have time to keep up on my daily reading of The Word. I don't know about you, but it sure is easy to look to other people or things to meet the need at the moment.

As I read the strong statements that the Lord made about His people the Israelites, I could relate. In Jeremiah chapter 2 some verses especially spoke to me on this subject of leaving the "water" to trust in all sorts of other false promises such as entertainment, material prosperity, transient relationships and recreational pursuits. The Lord summed up his case against the Israelites in Jeremiah 2:13:

"For my people have done two evil things; They have forsaken me -- the fountain of living water. And they have dug for themselves cracked cisterns that can hold no water at all." A good reminder to me to go to the "Water of Life" in every situation.

For those of you who knew Jimmie Sue Cole, please pray for Frank and the family as we celebrate her life tomorrow. I can somewhat relate to the challenges Frank is facing.

I trust that your week is going well.

Love,

Chuck

Trip complete

2011-01-31T14:51:00.005-05:00

As you see, we enjoyed some time on a small boat bobbing around looking for fish. Fortunately our pilot knew where to go, so we had lots of fun pulling in a number of fish, but Sue was the winner. That is about a 25 pound red snapper that gave her a tussle taking her from one side of the boat to the other until it was possible to get him close enough to the surface to gaff him. The one that I am holding is a needle fish which has some nasty looking teeth. I would not want to come into contact with them and as you see, the pilot was cautious about that too!

Our weather was great with only one day with a bit of chop that was not excessive. We visited the ports of Key West, Florida; Georgetown, Grand Cayman and Cozumel, Mexico which were fun to explore. My drive to and from Tampa went well and I was delighted to find lovely weather when I returned to Charlotte. I know that it is still January but I am hoping that the nasty weather is all behind us now.

As usual, I am again busy catching up on the backlog of work that accumulated in my absence but I wanted to get a quick blog off and thank you for your prayers. It is always a tremendous blessing to have so many of you praying. You are appreciated!

Love to all,

Chuck

All is well

2011-01-27T07:05:00.002-05:00

Up ahead of the office staff so have a few moments on the computer. The trip is going well. Less than smooth sailing but all is well. A few upset stomachs on board but I am doing well. Did take a "little pill" just to be on the safe side. It is not fun to have that kind of a problem. The seas from Key West to Jamaica were a bit rough but have since been nice. Jamaica was sunny and in the 80's so there are a few "red" passengers including daughter Sue who fell asleep out on deck.

Pray for friend Jimmie Sue who has been moved home from ICU to her home as she has requested, not expecting to be with us for much longer. Frank and family are by her bedside and also need our prayers.

What a blessing it is to know that God is in control.

Thanks for praying,

Chuck

Clay

2011-01-17T17:08:00.004-05:00

The study in Indeed this past week was most interesting and challenging. In reference to the potter and the clay (Jeremiah 18) I had my mind expanded thinking about my clay-like relationship with the Lord. Here are a few thoughts that keep fleeting through my mind about that relationship:

"We are reluctant to relax in the hands of the Potter for one main reason: We forget why we exist...Clay really exists for the Potter alone...The trials of your life are like the tools of a potter. They gouge you for the sake of beauty." Thinking about repentance in terms of clay; "Clay that has lost it's moisture, that is hardening and no longer pliable, is unrepentant clay. If that thickening process isn't too far along, the Potter can add some water and soften it up...The Potter's grand design depends upon the malleability of His clay...He always has a good plan for clay that bends." "The Potter is focused on outcomes...focused on how His people finish. Not where we started, but where we end."

The study brought to mind many carvings, moldings, reshaping and trials that did not feel good at the time, but it is amazing when I look back, a pattern for His good does take shape. I am challenged to remain pliable at this age when it is easy to feel like I have "learned it all" and want to be less pliable in His hands as well as with situations around me. It was a most revealing and challenging study for me!

Next Sunday Daughter Sue has invited me to join her in Tampa for a cruise in the Western Caribbean. We both are feeling that may be helpful to improve the after-effects from my earlier nasal infection. The excessive cold here seems to aggravate it quite a bit. I will be driving to Tampa on Saturday and will appreciate your prayers for wisdom and safety during the trips. I am certainly looking forward to spending those days with Sue!

I trust that your weather has improved as has ours and that you have a blessed week.

Love to all,

Chuck

Wintry Weather

2011-01-11T14:10:00.004-05:00

WOW...This weather does not belong in Charlotte! We had several inches of snow yesterday and ice accumulated on top of it during the night. Beautiful outside today as you can see, but very treacherous to be walking or driving.

I had an fanastic weekend. I invited a neighbor friend for a simple dinner Saturday evening and had a great time getting better acquainted. He has lived in the subdivision much longer that we have, but his work as nurse for the U.S. Government takes him away for months at a time. Currently he is working in a maximum security prison which certainly is never dull. It was good to learn more about his life and be better able to back him up with prayer.

Sunday was a delightful day with an in-depth study on Worship and the Holiness of God in class. Following that we learned about Praying in the Spirit which was most challenging and fit well with the Worship study. As we considered the need for prayer, the pattern for prayer and the encouragement for prayer, I was challenged about spending more time in effectual fervent (or earnest) prayer as James mentions in James 5:16. I find it far too easy to get all wrapped up with the urgency of the moment and fail to seek God's direction in every situation. I sure am thankful for the times when I proceed with my plans, but God through various means redirects my steps. I could avoid a lot of frustration if I was "consulting" with him from the start. I enjoyed rich fellowship with several dear friends over lunch after church. What a blessing friends are!

As I see the weather maps and realize that much of the nation is getting storms and excessive cold, I trust that you are keeping warm and safe. Have a wonderful week!

Love to you all,

Chuck

To get God's attention

2011-01-04T16:37:00.006-05:00

As I was putting together some thoughts for a presentation, I wondered how some verses were stated in the King James version of the Bible. I took a copy of the New King James version from the shelf that happened to be one Carol carried with her during the 80's. As I was searching out verses, a note in the margin in Carol's handwriting said; "The only way to get God's attention!" I quickly checked for the verse;

"But on this one will I look: on him who is poor and of a contrite spirit and who trembles at My word." (Isaiah 66:2b) The New Living Translation states it: "I will bless those who have humble and contrite hearts, who tremble at my word." Both translations sure make humility and obedience to God's Word primary! A powerful reminder for me during this new year.

I spent New Years eve with two couples from the office, and we stayed somewhat alert to say goodbye to 2010 and to welcome in 2011 with noise makers and sparklers as fireworks illuminated the night sky and their explosions penetrated the silence. I forgot how exciting the evening could be. The following evening I enjoyed another wonderful meal with friends from Michigan who have been coming down here for years to help at our office during the winter months. I am blessed to have so many caring friends when I am so far from my family.

As I launch off into this new year and decade, it is my desire to be more intentional in prayer and being in a position to get God's attention as simply outlined in the Isaiah passage. Please pray with me to that end.

Have a blessed New Year!

Chuck

Blessed Christmas

2010-12-27T16:19:00.006-05:00

I enjoyed some blessed times over the Christmas holiday. On Christmas eve I was invited to a neighbor's home for dinner and later we attended an outstanding Christmas Eve candlelight service. On Christmas I enjoyed a fantastic dinner with friends and was surprised how fast the day went as we enjoyed conversation that went around the world. As I left, snow was starting to fall and when I awoke the following morning the above is what I saw from my window. Brrr this is more like Michigan than the Carolinas! Churches and businesses were mostly closed on the 26th so I had a quiet Sunday at home listening to music and messages and completing a few small tasks.

While doing a small bit of reupholstering I went to collect some items from Carol's sewing materials, and found a small piece of paper that she had written at some time which was so characteristic of her: "Life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we are here we might as well dance." WOW...I fell apart for a few moments remembering the "dancer" of my life and sensing a renewed loss.

In the evening my "southern kids" stopped in for dinner bringing with them the dinner with all the trimmings complete with coconut pie. What an enjoyable way to wrap up the holiday weekend.

I trust that each of you also was blessed with family and friends and the reminder of that life-changing birth that is celebrated at Christmas. It was a good time for me to enjoy the wonderful music of the season and review many Scriptures about the Jesus of Christmas, the Man, the Redeemer, the Savior and Lord of His people. We are so richly blessed!

Love to all,

Chuck

A time of joy

2010-12-19T06:40:00.002-05:00

The Christmas season is always a busy time but it seems to me that this year is the busiest. Can that be any indication of age and my tendency to be slowing a bit? As I picked up a few groceries yesterday, I was amazed at the number of people in the store and traffic on the streets.

It is the season of lights, decorations, parties and special programs. I was especially blessed by a dramatic presentation of the Messiah that I attended with friends. The music was outstanding but along with the music there were snippets from the life of George Friderich Handel being acted out on the platform, taking the audience back to the 1700’s in London, Handel’s adopted city. It opened my eyes to an unknown side of Handel that gave an even greater understanding of his great work, the Messiah. A quote from an English composer about him that stuck with me was; “he died as he lived – a good Christian with a true sense of his duty to God and man, and in perfect charity with all the world.” I thought that was a good summation of Handel’s life and a challenge for me.

Last Sunday I was deeply moved by a baptism service where the only message was the testimonies of the large group being baptized. I doubt that there was a dry eye in the audience as we learned about the radical transformation of lives. This young church has made a radical difference in the lives of a huge number of men and women that have avoided traditional churches or had unpleasant experiences there. The honesty and openness expressed and their vision for the future was thrilling to experience!

As I begin this Christmas week, I want to keep my focus on not only that babe in the manger, but the Jesus that walked upon this very earth teaching, healing, encouraging and ministering to the multitudes for a relatively short 33 years. Taking our sins upon himself to a cross and a grave that could not hold him. The Jesus that arose from that grave, again walking on this earth, then ascending into Heaven awaiting everyone that by faith believes in Him as they pass through that curtain of death to enter eternity. WOW…talk about exciting…The Messiah can only be a glimpse of what awaits every believer!

May you have a blessed Christmas with family and friends!

With love,

Chuck

Thanks for praying!

2010-12-10T15:03:00.003-05:00

Just a quick note to let you know that the initial report from my ultrasound appears to be favorable. It will still need to pass by the radiologist but my doctor says that from what he can see, it appears to be a combination of an infection and some calcification. He says that in his opinion it is 95% certain NOT to be cancer, for which I am most thankful. He indicated that if I were a 14 year old, there would be more concern, but at my age it is unlikely to give any further problem after the infection is eliminated. Final report will be next week but we do not anticipate any surprises. Thanks so much for praying!

I have to admit that I was preparing for the worst while praying for a favorable outcome. Remembering all of the hours that I needed to spend negotiating appointments, insurance issues, driving to appointments etc. during Carol's battle with cancer, had me trying to visualize how that works with someone that is alone and doesn't like to impose on others. Thankfully at this time it is not necessary to work that out and I am confident that when/if that time ever comes, there is already a "plan" in place. As Carol once said; "It's not death that concerns me, it is the process."

As I write this I am reminded of 2 Corinthians 4:14:

"We know that the one who raised the Lord Jesus from the dead will also raise us with Jesus and present us with you in his presence." What a blessing to have that assurance!

Thanks again for your prayers. I will certainly let you know if there is any change but we certainly do not anticipate any. Have a wonderful weekend!

Love to you all,

Chuck

A day that will live in infamy

2010-12-07T13:36:00.002-05:00

Five years ago today we received the report on Carol’s pleural effusion…”fluid contains adeno carcinoma cells”…yes, we were dealing with cancer! Carol entered in our log that evening; “a day that will live in infamy.” December 7th became our day of infamy just as Pearl Harbor had for our country on that day years earlier. As I was thinking about that this weekend, my mind raced to those final hours thirty-one months later when Carol took her last breath on this earth, passing through that curtain of death escorted by the angels and her Lord that had so tenderly watched over her during those months. That moment as I stood by her bed was something that I had never before experienced. The tremendous feeling of loss and grief coupled with an amazing joy knowing without any doubt that Carol was safely home, free of all pain and disease and certain that we will be together again.

As we prepare for Christmas with all of the rushing around and preparations for the big day, I continue to be amazed at the goodness of our God that sent Jesus into this world to transform history as well as our very lives as we respond to His message of love. It is my desire to focus this season on Him rather than the many other trappings of the season. I like Dr. John Munro’s prayer for those hearing the Good News during this season: “Let’s pray for God’s great light to shine into many hearts replacing sadness with joy, restlessness with peace, distrust with love, and spiritual death with spiritual life!”

These next days will be filled with many programs, parties, gatherings and preparations. I trust that I can keep my focus on the One whose birth we celebrate this month… Remembering not only the babe in the manger, but the Man with the message that came into this world to transform lives.

As some of you are aware, I have been dealing with some health issues lately and appreciate your continued prayers for wisdom for both the doctor and myself as we may have to make some critical decisions after an ultrasound scheduled for Thursday. I was overwhelmed last evening when daughter Karin called to say that she is flying here tomorrow to be with me on Thursday. What a blessing to have such a loving family!

Thanks so much for your prayers and love,

Chuck

Thanksgiving

2010-11-26T16:58:00.003-05:00

For you who like visual images, this is a very happy family after years of hard work culminating with the judge's swearing-in ceremony at our lake house in Indiana. It was a team effort. Keith, Calli and Gavin were very much involved!

I trust that each of you enjoyed an exceptional Thanksgiving with friends and/or family. It was a special day of reflection and interaction for me. Having experienced a rather nasty problem not being able to breathe after returning home, I have been on some heavy steroid and antibiotic medications. With my compromised immune system I decided to decline offers to join large family gatherings with local friends. I did however accept an invitation from a couple that were only having their college-age grandson, and I had a delightful time enjoying a huge array of delicious foods topped off with a selection of pies for dessert. We enjoyed an afternoon of fellowship and I returned home reminded again of the blessing of wonderful friends.

With a four-day holiday weekend, I am enjoying catching up on sleep that was lost while ill, dealing with some much needed items around the house, reading encouraging and challenging material, and being thankful for a loving God that provides so much more than just the essentials…Yes, even thankful for times these past few days when medicine didn’t seem to be working, but able to confidently wait upon Him, thankful that the my future is secure…regardless!

It reminded me of truths in Psalm 119, especially verses 1-8 in The Message (Eugene Peterson):

You’re blessed when you stay on course,
walking steadily on the road revealed by GOD.
You’re blessed when you follow his directions,
doing you best to find him.
That’s right—you don’t go off on your own;
you walk straight along the road he set.
You GOD, prescribed the right way to live;
now you expect us to live it.
Oh, that my steps might be steady
keeping to the course you set;
Then I’d never have any regrets
in comparing my live with your counsel.
I thank you for speaking straight from your heart;
I learn the pattern of your righteous ways,
I’m going to do what you tell me to do;
don’t ever walk off and leave me.

As I think of the blessings of God I am filled with thanksgiving. But also I am challenged by the fact that He has blessed me so that I will be a blessing…Lord keep me sensitive to the needs, some very hidden, to those around me!

Love to you all,

Chuck

Wonderful Time Together!

2010-11-17T16:34:00.002-05:00

It is past time to get another blog out after some mighty busy, but fun-filled days, at the lake as we celebrated an early family Thanksgiving together.

We experienced two exciting thrills that were not anticipated. Justin and Laura showed us the first photo album of my fourth great grand child Ella, who is anticipated to arrive in early April. They also showed us a video of what appeared to be her daily exercises kicking her little feet and moving around completely oblivious of what was going on outside in the world that she will be entering. What a contrast to preparations for our first child many years ago, when we had very little information about her until she decided it was time to make her arrival that brisk October day.

Our second major thrill which none of us was expecting when we planned or get together, was the visit from a judge who drove over two hours along with the attorney that Karin has been working with, coming to swear her in as a fully licensed attorney for the state. It was not only exciting to be present for the ceremony, but both the judge and the attorney spoke in considerable detail about Karin’s research and suggestions in handling cases while she was working with them as an understudy, and the tremendous effect that she had on the outcome of a seven million dollar case that they worked together on and won. What a delight it was for me to be part of the group of seventeen gathered in our living room to witness this accomplishment.

For you who often ask about the swans, our little family that is now fully grown, swims by frequently. Several more, along with a few ducks frequently joined them out in the center of the lake now that boat traffic is at a minimum. We also had a couple of busy squirrels that were urgently collecting nuts from our grove of walnut trees across the road and planting them all around the yard for access during the winter. I am sure that we will find numerous trees from forgotten walnuts popping up in the flower beds and grass next spring.

We followed many of our family traditions over the weekend. We made gingerbread houses for each family, designed and made Christmas ornaments depicting things we are thankful for and enjoyed a time of singing together. Each day we got our fill of all sorts of delicious food and delicacies prepared by each family taking turns in meal preparation. It was one of those times when the house was filled with love and laughter which Carol and I have enjoyed about our family over the years. It is my prayer that Spirit will continue throughout the coming generations!

As we make preparations for the official Thanksgiving Day which is coming soon, we have much to thank our God for. I was repeatedly reminded of that over these past days together.

Love to you all,

Chuck

Shalom

2010-11-09T14:22:00.004-05:00

As Thanksgiving is rapidly approaching, I will be leaving early tomorrow for the lake house in Indiana for an early celebration with my family. Hopefully we will avoid the heavy air and road traffic that is usually experienced during the actual holiday.

Last evening I was reading some of the blogs from years back that Carol wrote during Thanksgiving holidays while at the lake house. Her health was deteriorating from cancer and we were on a roller coaster of emotions reviewing scans and CA-125 results. We had just arrived at the lake awaiting the arrival of family members the next day when Carol wrote about her night:

“Dear friends, if you’re walking in a dark and scary place and if I know about it, I was probably thinking about you last night. We’re at the lake, by ourselves, and went to bed so early that I had some awake time during the night when my thoughts went to people I care a lot about who are in difficult circumstances right now. So I worried awhile, and then prayed. Then I opened my eyes and saw the little illuminated FROG sculpture that Chuck brought along with us. It reminded me that all of us—you and I both—need to Fully Rely On God when we’re in dark places. I hope that you’re doing that. I want that to be the rule of my life too. And also to POG (Praise Our God).” I find that rereading Carol’s blogs to be an encouragement as I am reminded of the tender care and peace that God provided us during that especially difficult time.

A recent Indeed devotional was titled Shalom, a Hebrew word for peace. It was described as a peace that is beyond just a “lack of conflict within and with others, but a fullness, abundance, health and prosperity of all of life that comes from being with God.” Carol was a tremendous example of that Shalom peace right up to the moment she passed through that curtain of death.

On that Thanksgiving Carol gave each of us a small blue piece of paper on which we were to list items which we were thankful for, at least one which would be indestructible. This Thanksgiving one of my indestructible items that I am thankful for, are the fond memories of sharing my life with such a tremendous wife

I trust that your week is going well and that you are enjoying Shalom peace in your lives. Your prayers are always appreciated as I make this upcoming twelve hour trip.

Love to you all,

Chuck

Busy days

2010-11-04T15:28:00.003-05:00

I always appreciate the reminders that I get from you friends when I have not recently added to the blog. These have been some exceptionally busy days, but I want to take a few minutes to add a few thoughts here to let you know that I am okay.

Saturday I had a call from friends wanting to know if I would like to do something crazy and take a day trip up to the mountains to see a waterfall that they had read about and pick up some apples at one of our favorite orchards. It was a fun trip, the falls were fantastic, and there was still quite a bit of color in the trees which we enjoyed. I am also now well stocked with apples for a few weeks and watching for good recipes to use them.

Sunday I enjoyed our class with teacher Tom as we continued our study in Ephesians. I visited another church for their service which is a short distance away. They are doing a tremendous job ministering to primarily the 20-40 age group. Recently I read "Discipleship is not about programs and events. It is about relationships". This is certainly a church of relationships and it shows by the transformation of lives and the growing number in attendance. I am always blessed and challenged when I visit the group.

Monday I had a full day at the office and in the evening helped set up machines for voting. Tuesday was some day at the polls. I began work at 6 AM and did not get home until 11 PM that evening. I was tired but pleased to see the heavy turn out. We actually ran later than we did for the presidential election two years ago.

This morning I was at the office at the usual 4 AM to pick up donated bread items for the mission which are well received with the large group of candidates that are on campus in training for three weeks. As the day is winding down, I am thinking about how nice it will be to roll into bed this evening and catch up on some sleep.

It is always a joy to hear from each of you. Thanks for your continued contacts and expressions of love.

Have a wonderful evening!

Love,

Chuck

How would I respond?

2010-10-26T14:36:00.003-05:00

Last evening I had the joy of attending the KIEV Symphony Orchestra & Chorus presentation with several friends. What a worshipful event! After the final number I looked at my watch and could not believe that it had been nearly three hours of outstanding music with a bit of insight inserted about past years in the Ukraine. As we heard about the "slipping" of the Ukraine I could visualize far too much similarity with the U.S. today. I believe that it was in 1962 that Matthew said one of his friends had a million dollars of liquid investments when he went to bed one night. When he awoke the next morning that had been reduced to $20! WOW...how would we respond to that kind of a loss in our "security". It reminded me again not to be placing my faith in people or assets, but in our loving God.

Thinking about a response reminded me of an article I recent read where over 6,000 people were killed along with 500,000 chased from their homes on the islands of Maluku when heavily armed Muslims tied to Osama Bin Laden set out to rid the area of Christians. The person telling the story said that he lost 38 members of his extended family. His response: "Our people are praying. Our churches are filled. Divorce papers are being withdrawn...The prince of darkness tried to divide us. The Lord of love is drawing people unto Himself."

I am reminded of the oft-spoken words of our former Pastor Emerson; "My response is my responsibility!" I am still processing all that I heard and thinking about my response to the unpleasant events of my life in the past and in the future.

Love to you all,

Chuck

Back on the job

2010-10-19T14:39:00.003-05:00

It was a thrill to be able to hold Annika on Sunday while Karin and I visited her in the NICU at the hospital in Madison. We are thankful for the progress that she has made. She is now able to take most of her feedings by bottle and only needs supplemental oxygen via a nasal cannula rather than the ventilator. Thanks so much for joining us in prayer for her. We are praying that she will make rapid improvement now and be ready to join the family at home shortly. I know that her mom and dad will be delighted when that day arrives as well as her big brother and sister.

I was in the hospital back here in Charlotte at 6:15 this morning to be with a dear friend and his wife as he had a hip replacement. The surgeon was pleased with the surgery and he is resting in his room now without pain...What a blessing! We are thankful for another answer to prayer.

My rather fast trip was without incident for which I am always thankful. It was a bit more rigorous that I prefer. I drove just under 2,000 miles during which I was in a total of eight states over the long weekend. I think that I know why I feel a bit tired today.

Your prayers and contacts by email and phone are always so much appreciated.

Love,

Chuck

It can be told

2010-10-17T08:02:00.003-05:00

Now it can be told...I am in Geneva Illinois to celebrate the 50th for Carol's brother Phil and wife Nancy. It was a surprise with some 50 people gathering for a wonderful dinner at their daughter Julie and Rich's home, so I didn't want to let the word out via the blog prior to the event. Daughter Karin was able to adjust her schedule and make this trip with me when I left Indiana which is a tremendous blessing.

This morning we will have a brief brunch with the family and travel on to Madison Wisconsin to visit James, Liz and the family where third child Annika arrived a little over a week ago. She still is in the hospital and is now off of the ventilator so we are praying that her little body will continue to respond favorably and she will soon be able to be home with her family. We will return to Indiana this evening and I plan to leave early Monday morning to head back to Charlotte. We are on a fairly tight schedule with many miles to cover so appreciate all of your prayers and contacts.

I trust that you will have a blessed Lord's day.

Love to you all,

Chuck

Whenever trouble comes

2010-10-14T12:58:00.006-05:00

As I was praying for friends and family members this morning I was reminded about the verses in James 1:2-4; "...whenever trouble comes your way, let it be an opportunity for joy. For when your faith is tested, your endurance has a chance to grow. So let it grow, for when your endurance is fully developed, you will be strong in character and ready for anything." I found that to be a good reminder for me today...and every day for that matter!

New great grand daughter Annika (born 10/5) is at the top of my prayer list. She is still struggling with having arrived about five weeks early and continues to need God's healing touch to put her on track for her developemnt. What a blessing are the tremendous medical advances that we enjoy, but we are reminded that it is God that knows the number of hairs on our head as well as how every cell is functioning in our bodies. These things are always a test of our faith and an opportunity for growth in our endurance and character.

Tomorrow I am making an early morning departure for Indiana and will enjoy having a friend from the office travel with me for a portion of the trip between here and West Virginia where his parents live. Having a passenger always makes the miles go much faster than just listening to various radio programs, even with all of the XM options available.

This morning I also read about trust in the Psalms. "Trust me in your times of trouble, and I will rescue you, and you will give me glory." (Psalms 50:15) I think that the Lord is telling me something, and I believe that I am starting to get the message...Just trust me! It sure is easy to grab hold of things, people or what we can see, forgetting where are rock-solid trust should be.

I appreciate you prayers and calls as I travel and trust that our paths will soon cross. It is always a great thrill to catch up with each of you by phone and especially in person.

Love,

Chuck

A prayer for you

2010-10-08T15:43:00.003-05:00

This has been an exciting week. First came the arrival of Annika Caroline at 4:43 AM on Tuesday. Parents James and Liz will be keeping busy with this new little one but I am sure that Joshua and Lydia will be helping with their new sister also. They have been eagerly awaiting her arrival for a long time. This was about five weeks earlier that planned, but Annika was giving mom a little too much trouble to delay the delivery any longer. Thanks to each of you that was so faithfully joining us in prayer during those rather uncertain hours.

This evening I will be picking up one of our "adopted" daughters, Sue, from the airport as she returns from serving two years in the country of Guinea. Tomorrow I will also be picking up Beth who works with Sue there and they will be spending about a week here in meetings and visiting. It is always a thrill and a blessing to have visitors...That's a reminder to each of you to stop in when you can.

On Sunday my God Chasers Class will be continuing our study in Ephesians with a focus on 3:14-21 which is Paul's prayer for the Ephesians. In preparation for our study, Teacher Tom suggested that we read the prayer inserting our own name in place of "you" and "your". WOW...that makes it come alive! As I read that prayer, I was desiring that for each of you faithful friends. I appreciate each one of you!

Have a blessed weekend!

Love, Chuck

Daily battle

2010-09-30T16:39:00.000-05:00

For some reason, the past few days have been an extra challenge for me. The emotions seem to want to surface quickly and I just don’t didn’t feel like myself. I suspect that it is simply part of the battle that we believers are in. A couple of weeks ago Indeed focused on spiritual war for several days, reminding us that we are at war and need to be aware that our struggle is against the powers of this dark world. I appreciated the challenge to stand firm and to pray knowing that there is much more going on behind the scenes that we realize. During the same period I was listening to Erwin Lutzer talking about spiritual warfare. It seems that with all of that information I should not be vulnerable, but I suspect that is when Satan and his band strike hardest. It was good to have the extra background and I found James 4:7-10 to be helpful; “So humble yourselves before God. Resist the Devil, and he will flee from you. Draw close to God, and God will draw close to you…When you bow down before the Lord and admit your dependence on him, he will lift you up and give you honor.”

I enjoyed a weekend camping trip on the Blue Ridge Parkway with another couple from the office. The weather was perfect until Sunday when the rain started, but we were thankful to get the rain. With the rain came cooler temperatures so I suspect that it is time now to focus on the fall yard work. Hopefully Saturday I can make a bit of a dent in it before more travels come up.

I trust that the challenges that you faced this week brought you closer to the Lord also. I don’t know about you, but is sure is easy for me to cruise through the day when everything is going well without even thinking about how my actions will or will not glorify the Lord.

This was my early (4:30 AM) arrival at the office today, so I am feeling a little on the tired side. I suspect that I had better get things wrapped up now for an early bedtime.

Love to you all,

Chuck

Returned

2010-09-23T15:12:00.003-05:00

I just remembered that I had failed to let you all know that I have safely returned to home base. Wonderful memories of the 2,500+ trip visiting kids and grand kids! It was a special delight to be able to travel the entire swing around Lake Michigan with daughter Sue. Plenty of time for chatting and absolutely perfect weather. By the way...you will be interested in learning that Justin and Laura plan to be new parents in early April. We are all excited with them! You will recall that it was their wedding that Carol was able to attend as her last road trip to Michigan.

I returned to a nice pile of items on my desk that needed attention and a Community Life Conference Tuesday evening and all day Wednesday at the office, but I am just about caught up now. I plan to be heading for the mountains tomorrow with another couple from the office for the weekend camping on The Blue Ridge Parkway, enjoying the out-of-doors.

During the first session of our conference, the speaker, Steve, asked the question; "Who are the guys that will carry your box?" (box=casket) It was a very thought provoking session about relationships with an emphasis on Philippians 2:19-30 as Paul is commending both Timothy and Epaphroditus. Steve focused on the importance of (1) a genuine interest in others, (2) a previous track record, (3) involvement in true servant hood, (4) transparency and vulnerability, and (5) having no hidden agenda. It was an excellent challenge for each of us and has come back to my mind numerous times since then.

Thanks to each of you that faithfully keep up with me day by day. I appreciate you and your prayers so very much!

Love to you all,

Chuck

Heading on

2010-09-17T08:16:00.002-05:00

It was great to hear from so many of you with your comments about the pictures on the previous blog. While I am still able to connect with a fast server here at the Sault, I have inserted a small photo of the view from Sue's living room of a ship passing by on the way through the locks. It is exciting to see ships from around the world coming by. They access the Great Lakes through the St. Lawrence Seaway.

Shortly we will be on the road again heading back to the Indiana lake house for the weekend, wrapping up our circle-trip through four states taking us around Lake Michigan.

Thanks for joining us on this trip and for your prayers.

Love,

Chuck

All is well

2010-09-16T10:04:00.004-05:00

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Travel is going well. After six days and around 1,700 miles, I am sitting with Sue in her living room looking across White Fish Bay as ships pass by on their way through the Sault locks (Sault Ste Marie, Michigan). We have enjoyed wonderful visits with Jeremy & Julianna (Chicago) and James, Liz, Joshua and Lydia (Verona, WI). Hopefully the above photos will come through okay.

We enjoyed delightful times at both locations seeing many sights, enjoying specialty coffees together, hiking, touring James' fantastic office complex, apple picking, visiting the many animals at the zoo, and just wonderful conversation and catching up on each others lives. Phone calls and emails are great but they don't quite match face to face contact.

Tomorrow we head back to the lake house in Indiana where the Michigan and Indiana families will gather with us for the weekend. Monday I plan to make the roughly 12-hour drive back to Charlotte.

Thanks for your prayers and calls while on the road. You are a tremendous encouragement!

Love to all,

Chuck

Update

2010-09-09T14:25:00.003-05:00

Just a quick update for all of you that continue to follow and pray for me. You are appreciated!

I plan to leave early tomorrow driving to our Indiana lake house where I will have some time with Karin, Keith, Gavin and Calli. Sue will be meeting me there and we will take a few days visiting much of the rest of the family in Michigan, Illinois and Wisconsin. We will return for a brief stop in Sault Ste. Marie and then head back to Indiana where Justin and Laura will meet us at the lake house. It will be a few miles of driving but great to connect with all of the immediate family members, with the exception of Lisa who I will catch up with on a trip later in the year.

I am not sure about internet connections at we travel, but will keep you updated as often as possible. Lots to accomplish both at the office and at home before tomorrow morning.

Love to you all,

Chuck

Fountains

2010-09-04T08:26:00.001-05:00

Fifty one years ago tomorrow (9/5) I made one of the best commitments of my life as Carol and I began our life together. This morning I have been reflecting on so many events of that busy weekend. One that was both amusing and a teaching moment, was our decision to spend time each morning during our honeymoon reading a devotional given to us at our wedding…My Utmost for His Highest by Oswald Chambers. Over the years we would on occasion reread that devotional, in the revised edition. It never gets “old”. My first encounter with the book however was the original edition that titled that daily reading as Springs of Benignity. Not only did I have trouble pronouncing it, but what in the world was it? In later editions that title was changed to Fountains of Blessings…What an improvement! We laughed many times in later years about that experience and my effort to be the macho leader that morning.

This morning I took that book from the shelf and reread Chamber’s words again. He was writing about the words Jesus spoke to the woman at the well. (John 4:13-14):

Jesus replied, “People soon become thirsty again after drinking this water. But the water I give them takes away thirst altogether. It becomes a perpetual spring within them, giving them eternal life”.

Chambers goes on to make a vital point: “If you find that His life is not springing up as it should, you are to blame—something is obstructing the flow. Was Jesus saying to stay focused on the Source so that we may be blessed personally? No, you are to focus on the Source so that out of you ‘will flow rivers of living water’—irrepressible life.”

I find it so much easier to tell God what I want or think that I need and forget that this life is actually not about me but about Him. He will always use the situation for His glory if I will put my focus back on Him rather than making myself number one. There is no greater joy than to see Him working in and through lives!

I trust that we will each be fountains in which and through which God can flow during this holiday weekend, as we have a little extra time to spend with friends and family.

Love to you all,

Chuck

If my people...

2010-08-29T13:19:00.005-05:00

Several of you have asked about seeing more pictures, so I will accommodate your request with one special one of daughter Sue and I at dinner in the main dining room on the ship. I cannot praise the wait staff enough for their excellent service and attention to their guests. They were always a jump ahead of our wishes, always displaying a cheerful voice and a smile. They were outstanding and their jobs not easy!

It made me wonder how often I am grumbling or complaining about something rather just taking it in stride with a cheerful word and a smile on my face. Let me say that I feel convicted! It seems that I have had an inordinate amount of frustration with equipment, databases and situations that are extremely complex. It was good for me to be able to get away for a bit and re-think my own attitude and responses.

In the midst of it all, I have been excited about the things I continue to hear that God is doing in lives around the world. As we face some difficult times in our own country, I continue to pray for God's will to be accomplished in this country, recognizing that the situation could become even more painful for each of us...Just look back at history! I am often reminded of 2 Chronicles 7:14 and feel that I need to look in a mirror to see if I am helping the situation or a part of the problem:

"If my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then will I hear from heaven and will forgive their sin and will heal their land."

Have a blessed week!

Chuck

Listening

2010-08-22T19:04:00.002-05:00

Thursday was one of those days when I was exhausted upon returning home. My day started at 4:00 AM at the office to running to a warehouse to pick up donated bread for the mission. A major database refused to cooperate during the day and after getting that going, printing equipment didn’t want to work. An electrical storm with heavy rain hit about the time I was going to head home, so I was very late walking home and promptly headed for bed.

In our study on prayer the topic for the week was Listening to God. At 2:00 AM I awoke with a very uneasy feeling and could not get back to sleep. Rather that continuing to toss and turn, I decided to get up and read for a while. Going to the kitchen I noticed a night light in the guest bathroom was out and assumed the bulb just needed replacing. On my way back down the hall I had a strong urge to replace the bulb then rather than later. I found that the GFI circuit breaker was tripped which also controlled the freezer in the garage. I suspected that lightening had caused the problem and sure enough. My telephone was out. Several small electrical items were burned out and there was a nice black smudge on one of the outlets. Often I do not open the garage freezer for several days so things could have spoiled quite quickly in the hot temperature. I was so thankful for the uneasy feeling that prompted me to check things out along with being thankful that the house did not receive a direct hit. Last year one of our neighbors homes was hit and they had to spend many weeks in rented quarters while the damage was repaired. I believe it is quit possible that God was “speaking” that night.

In our study today, teacher Tom directed our thoughts to Psalm 16:7-8:

“I bless the Lord who gives me counsel;
in the night also my heart instructs me.
I set the Lord always before me.”

I thought the study directly fit what I experienced during the early hours Friday. Thank you Lord for your counsel and for your instruction even during the night as I awoke from a sound sleep. Might I always allow you to go before me, and might I have ears that hear, and might I be quick to respond!

Have a blessed week.

Love, Chuck

Outstanding trip!

2010-08-10T15:35:00.004-05:00

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Our cruise along the Inside Passage is complete and what memories we have! The beautiful snow-capped mountains, the glaciers and the eight delightful communities that we visited are wonderful memories that I know will be recalled over and over again. What a thrill it was to view eagles soaring overhead and a mother bear eyeing the bright red salmon heading up-stream while her three cubs played games in the tree above her. It was a real treat to travel all those miles without having to repack each day. Daughter Sue made this trip twice before so she was a fantastic resource in selecting how to spend our days on shore. It was great to be able to spend time with her on the ship as well as on land when she was not working.

At our stop in Sitka we visited a Russian Orthodox orphanage. As we toured the facility one plaque caught my eye as it described the founder. I am not sure that my quote is exactly right, but it went something like this: "His appearance alone commanded respect and his humility turned the respect to love." I thought a lot about that little quote during the balance of our trip and the importance of humility in my life. It is so easy to get all focused on my own desires and fail to display a humble spirit. I was especially aware of those desires joining lines around the ship. It sure is easy to want to push yourself to the front of the line at the expense of someone else.

With the most urgent matters that accumulated in my absence handled, I will be heading to bed early tonight. The four-hour time change messed up my sleeping last night so I need to do a bit of catch-up.

Thanks for your prayers and love!

Chuck

Leaving Kodiak

2010-08-04T21:45:00.002-05:00

We left Kodiak about six hours ago and are now well out to sea enjoying the usual rock and roll activity of the ship. I attempted to download a photo but the system is too slow to accomplish that task this evening.

Our weather continues to be fantastic with many people in the ports of call mentioning how much rain has fallen. Every port has been dry for us so far!

The service on the Amsterdam is outstanding! I have not seen a single worker with a negative attitude but can't say that for all of the passengers. We are being served royally!

As I have been reading Indeed, the focus has been on 1 Corinthians 9 this week...serving. Paul talks about becoming all things to all people so that some might be saved. I certainly see the staff on board serving in that way to assure that we return for another trip with them in the future. I am reminded that if I was as diligent about my service to others, how much greater a response I could see. It is a challenge for me!

I have appreciated the several phone messages that I have received and a few brief chats with some of you. Thanks for keeping us in your prayers as we now head back down the coast for Seattle which is scheduled for Monday.

My love to you all,

Chuck

2010-07-31T15:34:00.002-05:00

Our trip is moving along well. The above photo was from yesterday at Skagway which was another charming community. This was the third stop along the Inside Passage of Alaska. Currently we are viewing the fantastic glaciers in Glacier Bay and will be spending most of the day here. Our first visit was Ketchikan followed by Sitka. Our weather has been unbelievable with much sun and relatively warm weather...Just couldn't be better!

Love to you all,

Chuck

Prayer answered

2010-07-24T19:56:00.002-05:00

At last I believe that everything is pretty much ready for an early morning departure. Friend Stuart will be shuttling us to the airport at 6 AM for our flight to Seattle where we board the Amsterdam for Alaska. The installation of new body-scan machines at the airport are currently causing a fair amount of back-up in the security lines.

I thought that my week was planned out for and easy Friday, just wrapping up any loose ends. However on Thursday all sorts of problems arose with unexpected tasks, equipment that broke down and a database would not cooperate. When I left the office Thursday evening I was sure that some major projects could not be completed until I return.

I awoke at 2 AM Friday with all of the “problems” fresh on my mind. During the week I had been enjoying the Indeed readings about prayer. The necessity, vision, priority, agenda and power of prayer. That coupled with the study on prayer with Teacher Tom made me ask myself why I was troubled when God was far greater than these problems and it is His work that is being delayed. So I got up, turned each situation over to the Lord, asking for guidance and for His will to be accomplished. I was able to get back to sleep and feel refreshed in the morning It was absolutely amazing how everything fell into place on Friday. At noon I was invited to lunch, hesitated a moment not certain if I could afford the time, but was able to walk out of the office in the evening with every project/situation completed. WOW what an answer to prayer!

This afternoon has been filled with packing and unpacking, deciding what is necessary and what can be left behind to keep from over filling my suitcase. With the likelihood of rain and cold weather, some bulky items are necessary. Usually these are one week cruises but this one is for two weeks so nearly double the items are needed. I am excited to be able to take this inside passage trip with Sue. Carol and I had been to Alaska before but had not seen this area. From everything I have heard, it is amazingly beautiful.

Have a blessed weekend!

Chuck

Reflecting on prayer

2010-07-18T18:35:00.001-05:00

This week as I reflected upon our study of prayer and was praying for several that are facing some challenging times, I couldn’t help but think about the Apostle Paul and the hardships that he faced. I was especially interested in his reaction to those hardships and his desire to be obedient to God in his response to them. In chapter 6 of 2 Corinthians he says; “We try to live in such a way that no one will be hindered from finding the Lord by the way we act, and so no one can find fault with our ministry.” (vs.3) I am certain that Paul was in rather constant communication with the Lord (praying) to accomplish all that he did. I like his response at the end of the list of hardships in verse 10; “Our hearts ache, but we always have joy. We are poor, but we give spiritual riches to others. We own nothing, and yet we have everything.” WOW…that response can only be from a close walk with God, keeping in close communication through prayer.

Next week I have an exciting opportunity to take a cruise with daughter Sue to Alaska. During the two week trip we will spend the better part of seven days in Alaskan ports and also stop off in Victoria, BC. This will be a working trip for Sue, serving as one of the nurses on board which will prevent her from doing many of the tourist things with me. I am thrilled to have a couple that Carol and I often traveled with that are going too, so it will be fun exploring new territory together taking Sue with us as often as possible. I am not sure how easy it will be to connect to the internet during that time, so don’t panic if there isn’t a new weekly blog.

Thanks so much for your prayers and much encouragement. You are a blessing!

Love to you all,

Chuck

Thankful

2010-07-12T09:37:00.002-05:00

Anniversaries always have a tendency to bring back memories and this second anniversary of Carol’s home-going seems to be generating far more memories and emotions than the first. I am thankful for the wonderful group of friends that put together the celebration as Carol had desired. As I thought about the many guests I was reminded that several have now joined Carol through that fragile curtain. Some that were in apparent perfect health two years ago. One dear friend, George, who was in attendance and in great health is anticipated to be passing through that curtain at any moment. Pray for a gentle departure for him and for peace and comfort for Anne-Britt and the family. I was reminded of the little note that Carol wished to pass on about the painting by daughter Sue and her anticipation of seeing us on the other side of the curtain. “Adopted” son Rob did a beautiful job putting the painting and her note together on cards that were distributed at the celebrations. If Blogspot will cooperate, I will insert a picture of it here.

This week we have been studying about the problem of cynicism in a life of prayer. One of the six cures for cynicism that the author (Paul E. Miller) mentions, is cultivating a thankful spirit. As I read that, I couldn’t help but think of Carol. I don’t know of anyone that demonstrated a more thankful spirit than she. Even during those last days with fluid having to be regularly removed from her lung sac, violent stomach upsets and all sorts of difficulties, she always had a smile and words of appreciation for us and for the Lord as we attempted to make her more comfortable…A truly thankful spirit!

In comparing cynicism and thanksgiving, the author says; “Cynicism looks reality in the face, calls it phony, and prides itself on its insight as it pulls back. Thanksgiving looks reality in the face and rejoices at God’s care. It replaces a bitter spirit with a generous one.” Lord, help me to eliminate those cynical thoughts that can hamper my prayer life.

Have a blessed week!

Love,

Chuck

Making memories

2010-07-07T16:23:00.003-05:00

I trust that each of you had an enjoyable 4th with family and friends. Those gatherings are occasions for making wonderful memories that we can draw upon at future times. Keith and I had an uneventful trip to and from our lake house. We were able to get some repair items done while also spending time on the water, enjoying the family and even catching a few fish our last evening there. Grandson Gavin had a large group of friends join us at the lake to watch the local fireworks and they also put on quite a show of their own with all kinds of noisy and beautiful displays.

These days are filled with memories from two years ago as Carol was completing her time on earth with us. As I was reading the blogs which she and I had done during those final days, I was especially moved by the thoughts that she wrote on 6/27, which was the last time that she was able to write:

“I had a startling revelation a couple of days ago. I’m not going to learn anything more about heaven until I’m experiencing it in person. (Pause! Smile! Think about it!) I’m simply too tired to read any more, or even to hold a book. So the wonderful studying I’ve done over the past years is all I have—until I step through that fragile curtain and open my eyes on reality for the first time.

So I thought I’d like to pass that along. Today, while you have some energy and some control over your time, is the opportunity to learn what you need to know for your real future. There’s probably no last-minute cramming.

I’m writing this on Friday afternoon, as we wait for the rest of the family to arrive. I’m getting tireder as time goes by, but not sicker. I love you all and still wish I would tell you so in person. Through Christ, I hope to see you all there some day.”

Ten days later as we were tucking her in for the night, Carol took her last breath. A few days earlier she was able to spend time with each of our children and grandchildren before she became too weak to do so, and even had me dial the numbers of several out-of-state friends that she had been praying for and wanted to encourage them to keep growing in their faith and their relationship with Christ.

Thanks for your prayers for me and the family. We miss Carol very much but have wonderful memories. May we continue to learn while we have the strength as Carol challenged us to do in her final blog!

Love to you all,

Chuck

The grace and power of God

2010-06-28T12:47:00.003-05:00

As I was preparing for our class study on prayer earlier this weekend, my attention was drawn to a statement in the book, A Praying Life; "I am completely helpless to help others without the grace and power of God." This was in the context of the difference between “saying prayers” and honest praying. I underlined that statement wanting to be certain to remember it.

There are times that I am sure God either has a sense of humor or is quick to “test” me on what I was supposed to learn. Before the weekend was over, I found myself face to face with three situations that reminded me of my own helplessness in knowing how to effectively pray for individuals and their difficult situations…The kind of prayer that James refers to as being powerful and effective (James 5:16). It was refreshing to be able to pray for each of those dear friends recognizing my inability to really connect with the situations, but also recognizing the power of the Holy Spirit and knowing a God that loves each one of His people far more than I ever can, wanting to provide His very best for them.

Lord willing, I plan to spend a few days at the lake house over the 4th checking on our swan family, getting a little rest, and taking care of some minor maintenance items that need to be done. The approximate twelve hour drive is long, but it is always refreshing to enjoy the surroundings along with family and friends while there. Hopefully friend Keith’s schedule will allow him to go with me which will make the miles pass much quicker and will provide an extra driver.

I trust that each of you will have a blessed week and an enjoyable 4th with family and friends.

Love,

Chuck

Into The Light

2010-06-16T12:36:00.002-05:00

As I turned the page in my Indeed devotional yesterday, I was surprised to see the title; Into The Light which was the title for that days reading. It was identical to the one Carol attached to the picture that daughter Sue painted and I positioned so Carol could view it during her final days here on earth. Through the generous help of dear friends, we were able to reproduce it on 4X6 cards with a final message from Carol on the reverse side for distribution at her celebrations in Charlotte and Lansing. I still have people requesting additional copies of the card for themselves or others.

After days of looking at the picture and visualizing what was ahead for her, Carol dictated some of her thoughts about the painting. She said in part; "I see myself along with millions of other pilgrims walking along the path toward the curtain that separates us from eternity. Thanks to the Light of the world (Jesus), the inconceivable light that welcomes us is full of hope and glory and peace. This has been a metaphor for the last days of my life here on earth and a mere hint of the splendor that waits for all of us." As I see the original painting prominently hanging in my living room, it draws my attention each time that I pass and I often wonder at what point along that path I currently am located.

This past weekend was a delight being with Friend Keith and his family in Wake Forest. We enjoyed swimming in their neighborhood pool, exploring a huge close-by park and lake along with consuming a generous amount of delicious home cooking. It is always a thrill for me to spend time with them.

Thanks so much for your love, support and prayers. You are very much appreciated!

Love to you all,

Chuck

Keep on praying

2010-06-08T08:08:00.002-05:00

Do you ever feel like time flies? In many respects it seems that way to me…especially birthdays! How can a whole year pass so rapidly? I suspect that our reluctance to look forward to birthdays in our later years is the awareness of additional physical challenges that are likely to appear and new limitations we have experienced over the past year. The flip side of that is knowing that we are a year closer to stepping through that curtain of death into the presence of our God and Father who has loved us since before we were born.

I was tremendously blessed by the cards, emails, phone calls and greetings throughout the day along with a wonderful lunch with dear friends. The celebration did not end that day but continued with a delicious dinner and an evening of games with a group of friends the following day, topped off with a cake blazing with enough candles to set the city on fire. A reminder that I am in that classification of, older than dirt! The following evening I enjoyed another dinner with dear friends at a restaurant. Birthdays aren’t all that bad after all!

In our God Chasers class, we are beginning an intensive study on prayer using the new book by Paul E. Miller, A Praying Life. Teacher Tom describes it as not about techniques, not about placing guilt, but “…one of the most natural, refreshing, and freeing discussions on prayer I’ve encountered in many years.” I am excited about the study and the focus upon knowing God better through personal conversations with Him.

As I was preparing for the class Sunday, I was scanning the concordance to refresh my mind about various Scriptures about prayer. The one that literally jumped off the page for me was 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18; “Always be joyful. Keep on praying. No matter what happens, always be thankful, for this is God’s will for you who belong to Christ Jesus.” It struck me that as this was part of Paul’s final advice to the Thessalonians in his letter, it was also a vivid description of Carol’s life. Even when faced with cancer consuming her body and drugs that had many nasty side effects, even in her last hours, she glowed with her usual joy and continued to be thankful for her family, friends and the God that she looked forward to seeing. An example for each of us! Some of her last words to me were; “Chuck, take care of yourself, the family and many friends still need prayer.”

Lord, during the coming weeks of this study, help me to learn to communicate with you in an intimate and fresh way that will allow me to better know you and your will.

Love to you all,

Chuck

Focus on The Source

2010-06-01T15:31:00.006-05:00

I trust that each of you had a wonderful weekend. My weekend was an exceptionally delightful one. Friend Keith traveled with me to the lake house helping out with several "chores" that needed to be done there and helping with the trip by keeping me alert and also taking turns driving, which takes about 12 hours each way. It is always a joy for us to get together and catch up now that he lives about 2 1/2 hours away from me.

Grandson Justin and his wife Laura joined us at the lake along with son-in-law Keith, Gavin and Calli. Karin could not make it as she was working hard in Indianapolis preparing to write her Bar exam since graduating from Law School about a week ago. We also took time for some fun on the water. Lots of riding the tubes and wake-boarding filled much of that time. Our swans visited us often with their little family of one. It is fun to watch them bobbing for food and the little one hopping on mom's back if he gets tired or mom detects some danger.

We all enjoyed attending the Sunday service together and were challenged by Pastor Denny's message "The Source" which is the second in his series on "Becoming". We were challenged to evaluate where we go for encouragement, guidance and the power that we need in our every day life. He contrasted looking to the Source (God) in comparison to trusting our many available resources. One of the verses he referred to was Matthew 11:28-30; "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light."

Help me Lord, to be looking to you as The Source for all of my needs.

Love to you all,

Chuck

Busy days

2010-05-27T11:02:00.004-05:00

These have been some busy days. My trip back home was uneventful but I have been on a run ever since. This morning I was at the office shortly after 4:00 AM to go to the warehouse to pick up donated bread. Then at 8:30 AM I led our combined prayer service with our International Office. Recently I have been reading Philippians and was thinking about the Apostle Paul's statement in 3:8 when when he said "I consider everything a loss compared to the surpassing greatness of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord, for whose sake I have lost all things."

Paul certainly did give up a lot of things. His career as a rising star in Jewish circles, friends, loved ones, a steady income and a place to call home, just to name a few. As I thought more about it, I feel that it was more an exchange that he made. He put aside many things that we hold dearly to respond to the Christ that he was learning to love focusing on His priorities.

Today we heard from a family that took similar steps, leaving the security and comfort of life in the U.S. to take up residence among the Chinese peoples. Although it has been a difficult assignment, they are excited about how God is using them in a very remote location. They will spend a bit of time in the states getting a daughter settled in college and meeting with supporters before returning to their assignment. As I listen to reports like this one, it thrills me to be a small part of each of these teams.

Tomorrow, neighbor Keith and I are heading back to the lake house where we hope to complete a few chores in preparation of some summer family fun there. It will be a blessing to have him travelling with me as well as giving a hand with awaiting projects.

Thanks so much for your wonderful emails and phone calls. You are appreciated!

Love,

Chuck

Enjoying the lake

2010-05-24T10:17:00.003-05:00

Here is a quick update for those of you that have been following my trip. I am doing this blog at the library with a so-so connection at the moment, so I will make this short.

Jeremy & Julianna's wedding in Michigan was wonderful! It was a very full day returning to the lake around 2 AM Sunday. Just in time to get a few hours sleep and than prepare for a family brunch at the lake house Sunday morning. Shortly after brunch Karin took Lisa to the Chicago airport to return to DC, and those of us remaining enjoyed a delightful balance of the day with wonderful weather.

Today (Monday) I am doing some laundry, mowing the lawn and packing for my return to Charlotte tomorrow. Hopefully on the road by 5 AM.

Thanks for your prayers and our wonderful Lord!

Love,

Chuck

Heading North

2010-05-19T16:20:00.002-05:00

I always appreciate you wonderful friends and family members that encourage me and faithfully are praying. It is a tremendous blessing to have such a great support group!

Tomorrow I plan to drive to our Indiana lake house where I will spend a little time with the family there and get a quick nights rest. Friday I will be heading for Michigan where Jeremy and Julianna will be married on Saturday at 3:00 PM. Jeremy has asked me to stand up with him, so that will be a very special time. I am sure that it will also be a bit of an emotional time too. It was just about 23 months ago that Carol and I participated in Justin and Laura's wedding in the same church. It was her final wish to be able to attend that wedding and she made it. I am sorry that she will not be accompanying me on this trip but so thankful that she got to know Julianna and appreciate what a blessing it will be to have her joining our family.

Karin will graduate from Law School in Indiana at the same time so the family is splitting up a bit for the two events with Karin and family hopefully being able to get to Michigan in time to enjoy a good portion of the reception.

Do pray for safe travel for the many that will cover a lot of miles during those few day.

Love to you all,

Chuck

Tears teach

2010-05-15T17:26:00.001-05:00

Thanks to each of you for your continued prayers. They were especially appreciated as I prepared to speak to the Harbor of Hope group which is primarily made up of cancer patients and caregivers. I recognized that this would be a difficult topic but when praying about it the Lord seemed to be telling me to do it. Numerous approaches came to mind with the predominate thought of keeping it light and not too personal to avoid displaying any emotions. As I thought about it, I realized that most likely that would be of little help to those in attendance so I decided to use some notes that Carol and I had written.

I went back over journal entries and well over a thousand blogs. Many times the tears formed as I read about the events of the day and our reactions to them, and at times I really wondered if I could do it. As you prayed God gave me the strength and I made it through without too much emotion. I trust that in some small way it will be a help to those who are dealing with cancer either as a patient or caregiver.

This morning as I was reading on the patio watching several busy birds tending nests and coming back and forth for a drink or a quick dip to clean their feathers, I was amazed to find a comment about tears by Jane Rubietto in the Indeed. She wrote; “Tears of course, are one of our universal symbols. Though some people cry more than others, scientists say that the chemicals in tears differ depending on the emotion launching those tears. What I know is that they teach us about our own hearts, our needs, and anxieties. They teach us about our past. They guide us into other people’s souls, these salt-water drops that burst or drip or puddle. They are a type of spiritual discipline, if we will but notice. When we pay attention to them, whether our own or another’s tears, we grow. Tears water our soul.” I liked that thought…we grow from tears the water of our soul.

This morning I took little Silas and his parents out to pick strawberries. What fun it was to watch the little guy tank up on the bright red berries, fresh from the plant. We had to laugh as we put him into the car with bulging tummy and very juice-stained face, hands, legs and clothes. But he was one happy picker. I was reminded that like a little child, I too need to appreciate the many simple things coming my way each day.

I trust that you will have a blessed Sunday.

Love,

Chuck

Be truly glad

2010-05-06T16:08:00.003-05:00

This morning, referring to the believers hope of Eternal Live, I read; "So be truly glad! There is wonderful joy ahead, even though it is necessary for you to endure many trials for a while." (1 Peter 1:6) As I stopped to question myself if I am always truly glad, I had to admit that I am not. When trials/problems confront me I do not always welcome them as something beneficial. But after they are past, usually I can look back and find something that was actually a learning and growing experience for me. Jesus, his disciples and many other godly people in the Bible had their share of problems, so why should I be exempt?

During the past couple of weeks I have been challenged with a few of those situations. A friendly family of termites decided to invade my house so they needed to be removed and the damage repaired. Shortly after that we had a heavy hail storm that did enough damage to my roof to necessitate replacing it which is still in the negotiation stages with insurance company and roofers. And I just spent an entire afternoon today at the office accomplishing basically nothing, working with a factory technician and our computer department trying to get a special printer that I use, operational again. Tomorrow we will pick up from where we left off today, hopefully getting it back on line. Every now and then I need to remind myself not to let these trivial things take away my joy!

Yesterday I spent a long day (6:00 AM to 8:30 PM) operating voting machines for our state's primary election. I was amazed how tired I was at the end of the day when we were running final documents and wrapping up things. It is always fun for me to see so many neighbors and friends at these events, and with the primary being less busy than presidential elections, there is much more time to chat. It must be all of that chatting was what tired me out.

Wednesday I have the opportunity to speak to a group at church about serving as a caregiver. I am having a difficult time distilling 2 1/2 years into a brief but helpful message for those that currently are, or may soon be in that position. Please pray that I will have wisdom to share the appropriate information that will be helpful for the group and will at the same time glorify our wonderful Lord.

Again...I am indebted to each of you that so faithfully stand by and encourage me.

Love to you all,

Chuck

Godly People

2010-04-24T09:49:00.004-05:00

This morning as I was thinking about the past weeks I read Psalm 16:3 “The godly people in the land are my true heroes. I take pleasure in them!” What a blessing and encouragement are each of the godly friends in my life! This evening a group of us are taking a little over an hours trip to the edge of the mountains to enjoy a time of fun, fellowship. and experience some truly Southern Appalachian culture as we enjoy outstanding Texas style Bar-B-Q along with live bluegrass music and cloggers from miles around. I wish that you could join us! Carol and I enjoyed several trips there, and I believe our last trip was in 2005. One of those dear friends who joined us along with Carol, have now passed through that curtain of death. A reminder of how brief this life is and the importance of being prepared for that final moment here on earth.

I am continually thankful for the wonderful group at SIM that continues to encourage me and allow me to serve with them in their world-wide work. It is always a special treat as folks spend time at the office as they return from assignments around the world and prepare to spend time “back home.” I am continually reminded that God is truly at work around the world as they update us on their area of service. We had one near-tragedy this week when my boss Bob was hit by a car while riding his bike home. Somehow an individual hit the accelerator instead of the brake and threw him off the bike, then running onto the bike. He is still mighty uncomfortable with cuts, abrasions and a broken tooth but fortunately no broken bones or more serious injuries. Do pray for his rapid and complete recovery!

As you enjoy the weekend and prepare for a new week, it is my prayer; “…that God who gives you hope, will keep you happy and full of peace as you believe in him. May you overflow with hope through the power of the Holy Spirit.” (Romans 15:13)

Love,

Chuck

Blessed by you!

2010-04-13T06:18:00.000-05:00

During our prayer time yesterday at the office we had a brief devotional from the Book of Acts. Often we hear that book referred to as the Acts of the Apostles but we concluded that it is actually about the Acts of the Holy Spirit. It is interesting how the book ends without a “real” ending, giving the impression that there is a continuation. The conclusion was that it has NOT ended but is still being written by the Holy Spirit in the lives of each believer in Christ! I find that to be an exciting thought.

I enjoyed a delightful weekend on Jekyll Island with friend Keith. It is always great to get together with him, and our camping trips are a special time of sharing God’s fantastic creation and some delicious food and good fellowship together. Carol and I often camped on Jekyll Island over the years and we had planned another trip which was not possible because of her adverse reaction to the chemo, so I had to cancel my reservation. I suspect that was about three years ago, but they still had that record on file and had my deposit available for use, but I had long forgotten about it being there. I was impressed!

Visits are always a great encouragement to me. Tomorrow Carol’s brother Phil and his wife Nancy will be coming for a visit which I have been looking forward to for some time. We were last together in Florida about a year ago. It reminds me of Paul’s letter to Timothy when he says “May the Lord show special kindness to Onesiphorus and all his family because he often visited and encouraged me.” (2 Timothy 1:16) I too am blessed by each of you as you visit, call and write. May the Lord bless you also as you bless those around you!

Have a blessed week!

Love, Chuck

He Is Risen

2010-04-03T07:58:00.002-05:00

Our beautiful spring weather has kept me busy getting the yard in shape along with doing bits of needed spring cleaning inside. This week I had a wonderful visit from a couple on their way to Florida, using my home for a B&B. They came to the U.S. over 40 years ago from Norway. Engaged, she immigrated with her family and he came exactly a year later to continue their engagement and ultimately they were married in the U.S. They told about their childhood of need with the inability to buy important things like food even having money. Food just was not available. Repeatedly they said…”You are so blessed in this country”. I wonder, do we really appreciate that?

Recently I have been thinking much about Easter together two years ago when Carol and I spent it at our lake house with the family. Looking back at Carol’s blogs over the weekend she said; “Why do we call it Good Friday. It was a day of agony, but it was good for us, wasn’t it?” “I was thinking about the Lord’s supper. Every time we sit down to eat, we’re getting the benefit of living plants and animals that gave up their lives to nourish us. That analogy can drew our grateful thoughts to the ultimate sacrifice Christ gave for us.” Easter evening she wrote; “This afternoon we had the promised discussion about possible funeral plans with our daughters…We’re cool with the possibility that God might give both of us many more years, but at least we’ll get some options tied down anyway.” In just over three months, Carol met the Jesus that she loved.

I am thankful for our “adopted” family here, and will have Easter dinner with them. Rob’s mom just fell and broke her hip. During the repair they found a suspicious spot in the bone which is being analyzed. Do pray for them.

As we greeted each other Easter morning two years ago, I greet each of you:

The Lord is risen.
He is risen indeed.
Hallelujah!

I trust that this weekend will be a vivid reminder for each of us about the love and freedom that Jesus made available for of us.

Easter Blessings!

Chuck

Delightful Shower

2010-03-23T16:50:00.004-05:00

I can't thank you dear friends enough for your continued prayers for me. The trip to Indiana and then on to Michigan went well, and the reception was wonderful. Grandson Justin and wife Laura worked on the announcements, and daughter Sue and her friend Ginny did the majority of the reception. There were several fun games but I am sure the best was the one that required Jeremy and Julianna to mix up and bake a carrot cake. Now that doesn't sound so difficult but...they had to hold their dominant hand behind them and were given only the ingredients for the cake without any indication of how much of each item to use and they were not allowed to consult with each other. The final result was baked and available for guests. To my surprise it was not bad. Now that doesn't look bad at all, does it? As Jeremy tossed in several spoons full of baking powder, cups of flour, eggs that he could only one hand to crack, I really had my doubts. There was even a gasp from the audiance a couple of times when he added what appeared overly generous portions.

Toward the end of the shower, guests were asked to come along side the couple and grandson Justin prayed for them, their future and thanked the Lord for bringing them together and for the way they have walked with Him. I have to admit that this grandfather had tears of gratitude in his eyes. I thought back to the daily times of prayer when Carol and I would lift each of the children and grandchildren up and commit them to the Lord. I am not quite sure why, but to see each of them walking with Him now is always an emotional event for me. The only regret that I had was that Carol was not there to enjoy it with me.

As I drove the many hours back home, I was convicted to make prayer for each of them a priority each day. I have to admit that being alone and finding what seems like so much to do, I often rush through the day without praying for each one. That I promised myself, will change!

It is always such a blessing to receive phone calls as I travel checking on my progress and warning me not to forget to stop and stretch from time to time, and to know that so many are praying for me.

Thanks so much for your love!

Times of adversity

2010-03-16T16:31:00.003-05:00

As I observe the great challenges here in the United States and all around the world, it is not difficult to recognise that we are in a time of adversity. As I was thinking about that recently, I was reminded of a statement that Thomas A. Lambie, MD made in his book A Doctor Without A Country as he faced major problems working in Africa many years ago, so I had to look up the quote. Sharing experiences with his readers, he wrote:

"In times of adversity the heart looks upward in a peculiar way, and we sought guidance from God. Was this to be the end of the enterprise? So many times God gives us a word of cheer or encouragement, either in prayer or by bringing to our mind a special verse from the Bible that applies to the trying circumstance through which we are passing. We do not believe in blindly opening the Bible, shutting one's eyes and putting one's fingers on a verse at random in a sort of "magical" getting of guidance. Nor do we believe in searching through hundreds of irrelevant verses before we strike one that we think will suit the case. Rather do we believe in daily systematic reading of the Bible, asking God to enable us to get from it the light we need for each day, and grace to perform anything the Holy Spirit will reveal to us from that daily reading...It is wonderful how God does guide if we are willing to accept the guidance given."

That challenged me not to fret and complain, but to be seeking guidance from God for this country, the world and my daily response to all that is going on around me. We continue to have people serving in areas of great danger, thankful for every safe and fruitful day. Often I wonder what great tragedy I may have avoided as I look to God for direction, and go merrily on my way.

With that in mind, I will be travelling to Michigan this weekend to attend the shower for grandson Jeremy and Julianna who will be married in May. I am always thankful for safe travel, but I certainly do not take that for granted. Thanks for your prayers as I drive the 12 hours each way. I thank God for the health and strength that He continues to give me to continue being active and the ability to get together with the family fairly often. They are a huge blessing!

Love to each of you,

Chuck

God hears our groaning

2010-03-09T16:33:00.002-05:00

It was another busy weekend, so I am just now getting on top of email etc. Friend Keith came to spend the weekend with me and celebrate his birthday. He prepared a delicious dinner for us on Friday and we had several friends in on Saturday to celebrate his birthday. We also went with another couple to the Spring Show that is always a fun event, enjoying all of the flowing waterfalls and fountains nestled in among large flowering trees with spring flowers blooming all around. It must take days to set up, but it gives hope that spring may not be too far around the corner after the coldest winter we have ever experienced here.

As usual Sunday was a delight in our study with teacher Tom. We were studying Exodus 2 with a heavy focus on verses 23-25 which in part say; "...the people of Israel groaned...and cried out for help...and God heard...God remembered his covenant...God saw...and God Knew." And as we read on in Exodus 3 we find that God had Moses in "the wings" to respond to their needs, but not immediately. We were reminded that at times God is waiting upon us to respond before making His move, and unfortunately we also are prone to make decisions outside of His will and He usually will not override our free will. It sure makes me realize the importance of fervent prayer which James talks about and also the need of being in tune with His Holy spirit. I have certainly been blessed by God when He has heard my many groanings and responded to them. At the same time I can look back at times when He did not respond in the manner or time as I wished, and can usually see the reason for the delay at a much later date.

Lord help me to be honest in my groanings to you and be in tune with your Holy Spirit.

Love,

Chuck

2010-03-09T15:50:00.002-05:00

It was another busy weekend so I am just now getting on top of email etc. Friend Keith came to spend the weekend with me to celebrate his birthday. He fixed dinner on Friday and we had several friends in on Saturday to celebrate his birthday. We also went with another couple to the Spring Show that is always a fun event, enjoying all of the flowing waterfalls and fountains nestled in among large flowering trees with spring flowers blooming all around. It gives us hope that spring may not be too far around the corner after the coldest winter we have experienced here.

As usual Sunday was a delight in our study with teacher Tom. We were studying Exodus 2 with a heavy focus on verses 23-25. Those verses say in part; "...the people of Israel groaned...and cried out for help...And God heard...God remembered his covenant...God saw...and God knew."

And as we read on in Exodus 3 we find that God had Moses in "the wings" to respond to their needs, but it was not immediate. We were reminded that at times God is waiting upon us before making His move, and unfortunately we also prone to make decisions outside of His will and He usually will not override our free will. It sure makes me realize the importance of fervent prayer that James talks about and also being in tune with His Holy Spirit. I have certainly been blessed by God when He has heard my many groanings and responded to them. At the same time I can look back at times when He did not respond in the manner or time as I wished, and can usually see the reason at a much later date.

Silas Picture

2010-03-01T09:46:00.002-05:00

Several have asked about buddy Silas that I mentioned in the blog yesterday. Here he is...a very active and fun one-year old.

Chuck

What do you want?

2010-02-28T20:27:00.002-05:00

This has certainly been a week of activities, but I always enjoy keeping busy. Saturday I took advantage of the mild weather to get some outside work done in the afternoon after my inside chores were completed. I got the crape myrtles trimmed, sprayed bushes that tend to get infested with scale, and spread pre-emerge on the lawn to hopefully prevent an invasion of crabgrass this summer. I also filled the bird feeder in response to the birds insistent chirping to get my attention. It seems that this winter they have gone through much more seed than usual.

Sunday was a delightful day digging deeper into the question that Jesus asked the blind man in Mark 10; “What do you want me to do for you?” It has been a challenging activity to hone my desires down to a list that falls within the desires of my heart as planted there by the Lord, and hopefully understood by me to adequately compile them in some coherent fashion to adjust my focus. On the surface the task sounded easy, but in reality it is a real challenge.

In the afternoon I had the joy of attending the birthday party for a young buddy of mine that just turned one. His parents are long-time friends and are spending a year here working with our AIDS ministry between their terms serving in Burkina Faso. Little Silas is one of my “adopted” grandchildren, and is lots of fun to interact with. His eyes went wide when he saw a lighted candle on his piece of birthday cake, and he especially enjoyed the icing which was more that he normally would have been allowed. Blowing the candle out was a bit of a challenge that mom helped with, but by his next birthday, I am sure that he will have it conquered.

I had a call today from daughter Sue who just finished the first week on a cruise serving as RN, and was about to leave Florida for her second weeks cruise with another group of people. I am sure that it is a relief for her to be away from the cold of Northern Michigan for a couple of weeks this time of year.

I trust that each of you will have a blessed week as God works in and through your lives.

Love,

Chuck

Encouraging

2010-02-23T13:35:00.003-05:00

WOW...Thanks for all of your encouraging responses to the blogs. It is amazing how just when I start to think that it is time to end the blogs, a number of encouraging comments arrive and I decide to continue a little longer. I am certainly not a writer like Carol, and I often wonder if I am actually communicating anything significant.

Recently I have been thinking much more about faith. It is so easy for me to put my faith in all sorts of things or people but lack the depth of faith in God that I desire. I am blessed with an outstanding class and our teacher Tom who continues to turn our focus on God as we study the Scriptures. As I continually see God in a new light and gain a better understanding of Him, I often ask myself why my first approach to any problem isn't always directed to Him and His Word?

As we continued our study of Mark 10 Sunday, we dug deeper into Jesus words to the blind Bartimaeus; "What do you want me to do for you?" On the surface that sounds like an easy one to answer, but as I roll that thought around, I move away from the trivial desires and find myself focusing on the BIG desires that will live long after I have left this world. And when praying for the more immediate issues, I find myself focusing my prayers more on the resulting eternal impact of the outcomes (His glory) rather than the desired solution.

In our study we discussed Psalm 37:4 "Delight yourself in the LORD, and he will give you the desires of your heart." We decided that this could be saying that the Lord will both plant the desires in our hearts as well as respond to them. Those have been challenging thoughts for me.

As I read Romans 1:12, I thought of you dear friends: "I am eager to encourage you in your faith, but I also want to be encouraged by yours. In this way each of us will be a blessing to the other." Thanks for being a blessing!

Love,

Chuck

Delightful weekend

2010-02-15T20:29:00.002-05:00

What a delightful Valentines weekend!

At 2:30 AM Friday, daughter Lisa rolled into Charlotte on one of the few trains that was able to leave DC due to the snow and resulting downed trees, frozen switches etc. Her trip was a bit questionable all week, but thankfully her train made it.

We had a wonderful time catching up and also having several mutual friends over for dinner or dessert so we didn't have much down time…but it was what we both needed, and on Saturday evening were taken out to dinner by some dear friends to a lovely Italian restaurant. Yesterday we enjoyed Teacher Tom’s class and a study from Mark 10 about blind Bartimaeus. We were reminded that Jesus always stops to listen when we call out, and not only listens but responds to our requests in accordance with his will and our faith. It was encouraging to learn that great faith is not necessary but as we stretch our faith, it will increase just as the working of our muscles makes them stronger. In the afternoon we enjoyed a tour of the spectacular Orchid House at Daniel Stowe Botanical Garden and enjoyed more guests in the evening.

As I sent Lisa off on the 2:00 AM train this morning, I had a few moments of pain as I remembered a similar trip with her about 19 months ago as she was the last of the family members to leave late in the evening after Carol’s celebration, when suddenly the realization of being all alone hit me as I headed back to an empty house and a dramatically changed life. I realized how easy it is for me to forget about all of the blessings that I have enjoyed and let my mind focus on the negatives. Fortunately I brought my thoughts back to the positive before I reached home and have been rejoicing in God’s rich blessings since then. I was reminded of something that I read in Indeed a few days ago; “Thankfulness is such a valued commodity in the kingdom of God.” The writer encouraged us to “…be thankful. Let gratitude fill your heart and then overflow into our surroundings.”

Thank you Lord for your ear that is always tuned to your people and your compassion and mercy that respond to us as we open our hearts and lives to you!

Love to you all,

Chuck

Safe return

2010-02-09T17:37:00.003-05:00

Thanks to each of you for your prayers! The return trip went well with a plane that was only about 2/3 full, which gave me some extra knee room which I very much appreciated.

As we passed over numerous islands and many miles of water before reaching the East coast, the song How Great Thou Art was playing in my head..."Oh Lord my God, when I in awsome wonder consider all the worlds Thy hands have made...How great Thou art, How great Thou art!"

After having been away from the daily routine for a few days it is amazing how much easier it is to appreciate, and even see, the world around us. And from 33,000 feet above there is an entirely new perspective of this earth which is so small in proportion to the vast universe.

I sure don't understand it, but I thank God for His interest and love for each individual on this earth. And we are hardly a speck in the planet. We serve a great God but even more amazing is His desire to serve us. Jesus said that "...the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many." (Mark 10:45) That was last Sundays study with Teacher Tom which I unfortunately missed having been away. Hopefully we will get a bit of a recap and continuation of the study next Sunday. Those studies always broaden my thinking!

Have a blessed week!

Chuck

Blessings

2010-02-08T07:52:00.003-05:00

WOW...I can't believe that it is already Monday. These days have gone so rapidly and tomorrow I will wing my way back to the US and the daily routine. These have been wonderfully restful and restorative days with Paul and Ruth enjoying the fellowship, food and wonderful weather.

Yesterday it was great to see several "old" friends at church and listen to a pre-Valentines message on love and the potential breakers of love relationships. One thought that really stuck with me was the problem of over commitment in our lives. It certainly is so easy to place too much importance on the wrong things or relationships in our lives and neglect those that we should be nurturing.

It was good to see friend Marcia again at church. We had lunch with her previously during the week and were updated on her life since the passing of husband and dear friend Bob with cancer a few weeks ago. Do continue to pray for her as she deals with that adjustment which I can somewhat relate to, but she has additional challenges before her.

Paul is doing quite well and we continue to pray that surgery will not be necessary. At this time it appears that the inflammation has been eliminated and we are praying that the medication will accomplish it's purpose.

Friend Keith recently closed an email to me with "God Bless You" which has caused me to focus on the many blessings that God provides to each of us. We quickly can think of physical blessing that continually come our way from Him but I have been focusing more on the spiritual blessings. Those thoughts took me to Ephesians 1:3; "How we praise God, and the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly realms because we belong to Christ." That is a good one to try to wrap your mind around.

Certainly I am blessed with each of you dear friends and family members that faithfully pray and encourage me. You are each a blessing!

Love,

Chuck

Perfect trip

2010-02-03T17:53:00.003-05:00

Just a quick blog to let those of you that are checking that I arrived in Nassau with no problem. Actually was nearly 30 minutes early but customs more than took up the time savings. The weather is a delight after the cold that we have had in Charlotte. I managed to get a good bit of vitamin D today along with a nice walk. It is a delight to spend this time with Paul and Ruth!

Trust that you are all doing well. Thanks for your prayers and concern.

Love,

Chuck

Winter is here

2010-01-31T22:41:00.002-05:00

This has been an unusual winter in Charlotte with extra cold days and then...Saturday morning I awoke at 2:00 AM with small hail pelting my bedroom windows and by daybreak we had about an inch that had accumulated. With the ground being warm when it fell, the small stones started to melt and then froze together making travel difficult on the ice covered surfaces. Many places closed Saturday and Sunday about everything was closed in the morning, but warmer temperatures and lots of sun took care of much of the ice before nightfall.

On Saturday afternoon I ventured into town with friends to attend a home and yard expo, taking the light-rail train which had no problem with ice.. The walks and parking lots were a glare of ice but we managed to stay upright. Sunday morning about everything was closed including churches, so I had a productive time caching up on some reading and a few needed chores around the house.

On Wednesday I plan to leave the cold and spend a few days in the Bahamas with Carol’s sister and her husband. It is always a delight to spend time with them and their weather is also a bonus. Today it was a balmy 83 there when I talked with sister Ruth. I believe that my still slightly congested sinuses will appreciate the change and hopefully clear up while there.

Recently during our office prayer time, the leader read Psalm 91. It is such an encouraging Psalm and since then I have been especially thinking about verses 14-16:

The LORD says, “I will rescue those who love me.
I will protect those who trust in my name.
When they call on me, I will answer;
I will be with them in trouble.
I will rescue them and honor them.
I will satisfy them with a long life
and give them my salvation.”

How can we not be encouraged with that message!

I trust that you will have a blessed week.

Love,

Chuck